For Butch/Femme

Mizzou · 11-21-2007, 05:13 PM

I have no idea why I would put this title here. Curouis who are they ??

If you are member of AD and not want to post here then that is fine. You can PM me later.

Are you Butch or Femme ?

Any else ?

Deafilmedia · 11-21-2007, 06:03 PM

Butch acts like a man. I guess.

Femme, I never heard of that.

Hwy99 · 11-21-2007, 09:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mizzou

I have no idea why I would put this title here. Curouis who are they ??

If you are member of AD and not want to post here then that is fine. You can PM me later.

Are you Butch or Femme ?

Any else ?

Butch is a man-kind and Femme is a woman-kind. I am kinda in middle way so both!

Deafilmedia · 11-22-2007, 12:09 AM

Why men have to act macho? Why women have to act so girly?

I don't act like a man and I don't act like a girly.

I'm just myself.

I don't wear dress, makeup, earring and stuff..

I only dress casual and just act human, average person.

And I don't know why Ellen Degeneres has to cut her hair so short and sit like a man... she gets on my nerves... I know she looks uncomfortable.

Why can't she just be herself? Relax. Stop trying so hard. We all
know she is a lesbian. She is so annoying. Trying to get or seek attention.

Zzzzzzzzzzzz boring.

**sequoias** · 11-22-2007, 12:11 AM

"why" is your favorite word so far I've seen in the forum, deafilmedia.

Deafilmedia · 11-22-2007, 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sequoias

"why" is your favorite word so far I've seen in the forum, deafilmedia.

Why you don't like me, huh?

Why I can't say why?

Why you aren't at your parents' house for Thanksgiving, huh?

Why? Huh, Why?

You already broke the rules, went off topics about my favorite word. Don't hold back. Come on.

LakeTahoe · 11-22-2007, 07:25 AM

I'll say between if I date a woman. I don't mind femme but not toooo butch just tiny bit is acceptable for me.

LakeTahoe · 11-22-2007, 07:26 AM

Oh I know..I noticed that every time she see topic about gay/lesbian she'll go whine or blah blah!! RME!

Quote:

Originally Posted by sequoias

"why" is your favorite word so far I've seen in the forum, deafilmedia.

Lil_country_gal · 11-22-2007, 05:31 PM

I'm butch and there is nothing i can do about it it's who i am and i'm damn well proud!

SxyPorkie · 11-23-2007, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lil_country_gal

I'm butch and there is nothing i can do about it it's who i am and i'm damn well proud!

Great...You should be proud of for whom you are.... do not worry about what other people think....Just be yourself...

Lanee · 11-23-2007, 05:10 PM

Butch and Femme are reflective of the individuals. Butch is more masculine; Femme is more feminine. Still, neither identity can be placed in a neat little box, as there are plenty of Femmes who will change the oil in a car, and plenty of Butches who will spend hours in the bathroom getting ready to go somewhere.

Oftentimes, Femmes (like me) can pass as straight. On the other hand, Butches often pass as teenage boys.

**shel90** · 11-23-2007, 05:48 PM

I am Femme.

**deafskeptic** · 11-23-2007, 08:00 PM

I'm neither butch or femme. Most of my interests are more typical of men than that of women but I also think of myself as a woman who happens to have little interest in things typically femme. Those who know me well find it much easier to imagine me working on Lua or Perl scripts for my favorite games than to imagine me changing the oil. BTW, I'm learning Lua.

justbeautiful · 11-24-2007, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sequoias

"why" is your favorite word so far I've seen in the forum, deafilmedia.

who cares if she/he says why!

Mizzou · 11-26-2007, 05:24 PM

I not know why DI has guts to say that in here.

I know Ellen is just fine woman and proud of herself who she is. She is biggest fan in the USA like OPRAH!!!!

I seen some are Butch/Femme in real life. I was wonder about this forum... is anyone ??

Me ?? look at the mirror and cant tell who I am.

jewels10 · 12-05-2007, 11:50 PM

Femme!

Out for 37 years...

Splendor · 12-06-2007, 11:36 PM

I am very hot femme.

**Dixie** · 12-25-2007, 05:35 PM

I see myself as me, I am who I am. Some have pegged me as 'still-in-the-closet', my mother has even said Im dyke. But I dont care I really dont. It all rolls off like water on a ducks back.

I like Ellen, I like her because she is funny and she is 100% comfortable with who she is and she understands that she can't change it.

What I dont understand are the people who think homosexuality run amuck is going to send this country on a downward spiral, NOT TRUE!

It is narrowminded individuals who refuse to see the broader spectrum of things and realize, that gay or straight, deaf or hearing, that every person big or small, fat or skinny deserves respect as a human being.

Byrdie714 · 12-25-2007, 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dixie

I see myself as me, I am who I am. Some have pegged me as 'still-in-the-closet', my mother has even said Im dyke. But I dont care I really dont. It all rolls off like water on a ducks back.

I like Ellen, I like her because she is funny and she is 100% comfortable with who she is and she understands that she can't change it.

What I dont understand are the people who think homosexuality run amuck is going to send this country on a downward spiral, NOT TRUE!

It is narrowminded individuals who refuse to see the broader spectrum of things and realize, that gay or straight, deaf or hearing, that every person big or small, fat or skinny deserves respect as a human being.

deafdyke · 12-25-2007, 05:57 PM

Quote:

Most of my interests are more typical of men than that of women but I also think of myself as a woman who happens to have little interest in things typically femme.

Well there's a word for that. It's called genderqueer. I like describing myself as a gay man trapped in the body of a woman. I've always been a hardcore tomboy....but at the same time I adore girly stuff too.

**Dixie** · 12-26-2007, 08:11 PM

maybe your a gay male metrosexual trapped in a woman's body??

just kidding.

myself I have always been tomboy, always will be, and to be honest I find myself more curious about women's stuff than actually knowing anything about it. IE - why the hell do you have to get up everymorning and put warpaint all over your face and call it makeup??

why carry a bag full of random items when you only need less than 5 of those items at your destination??

and heres another kicker Ive never understood - why do women carry two purses on Sundays, but the rest of the time they have this HUGE saddle bag they are lugging around over their shoulder??

Sometimes I feel like Im the only woman alive that doesnt understand what its like being a woman.

Weird I know. I was the girl that had all these Barbies but I had tons more fun playing with my brothers matchbox cars sets.

Mizzou · 12-26-2007, 08:51 PM

Metrosexual male is right. That is true because I am bio-female and trapped in man body.

Kids love to play with ANY toys.... cars, farm animals, dolls. I used play with animals, cars, and dolls. Sure, I am crazy

Male carry their purse, too. I carry male purse.

**deafskeptic** · 12-26-2007, 10:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by deafdyke

Well there's a word for that. It's called genderqueer. I like describing myself as a gay man trapped in the body of a woman. I've always been a hardcore tomboy....but at the same time I adore girly stuff too.

I know. There's some other names for people like me: FTM trangenderist - not to be confused with transexual. I think Beau Bowden has a list of all the terms for FTMs. I got interseted in this transgender thing when I read about Brandon when I bought the book about him in the true crime section. I found it disturbing as the author clearly wasn't sympathic toward him.

If I were a true transexual, I'd be a transexual homosexual. I don't envy those FTM gays.

bbdqsony · 12-27-2007, 09:21 PM

People cannot see for themselves if they are butch or femme.

For example I think I act like man, butch but I was told sometimes that I act little femme and I usually twist my hip little like spanish girl

But hell I'm still cute...

Mizzou · 12-28-2007, 05:12 PM

bbdqsony - you sounds cutie when you said "I usually twist my hip little like spanish girl". I been there when I was young. Oh silly me!

I watch half of show from last night about transgender KIDS. Interesting and think you maybe like to read this link.
'Born in the Wrong Body' - Documentaries - MSNBC.com

**deafskeptic** · 12-28-2007, 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bbdqsony

People cannot see for themselves if they are butch or femme.

For example I think I act like man, butch but I was told sometimes that I act little femme and I usually twist my hip little like spanish girl

But hell I'm still cute...

I've had people tell me I should act more femme - especially my mother. I haven't forgotten the time a friend said about my bike: it's a boy bike. I've always wished I had said it's a pink bike so there!

bbdqsony · 12-28-2007, 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mizzou

bbdqsony - you sounds cutie when you said "I usually twist my hip little like spanish girl". I been there when I was young. Oh silly me!

I watch half of show from last night about transgender KIDS. Interesting and think you maybe like to read this link.
'Born in the Wrong Body' - Documentaries - MSNBC.com

lol thanks

Hwy99 · 12-29-2007, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mizzou

Male carry their purse, too. I carry male purse.

Me too!

I love the purse! When I have the wallet, I always lost it or never use, but if I have purse, I never lose it or skip it when I leave my home. Loving my purse

**deafskeptic** · 12-29-2007, 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PuyoPiyo

Me too!

I love the purse! When I have the wallet, I always lost it or never use, but if I have purse, I never lose it or skip it when I leave my home. Loving my purse

I don't trust myself with any kind of purse. I tend to lose my purses and book bags so I prefer a wallet in my pocket; this way I don't lose it. I don't put down my bookbag unless I'm in a class room. Otherwise, I run the risk that I'll lose it.

Hwy99 · 12-29-2007, 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by deafskeptic

I don't trust myself with any kind of purse. I tend to lose my purses and book bags so I prefer a wallet in my pocket; this way I don't lose it. I don't put down my bookbag unless I'm in a class room. Otherwise, I run the risk that I'll lose it.

Seems like you prefer butch stuff like the wallet

11-21-2007, 05:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
Mizzou Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,687	For Butch/Femme I have no idea why I would put this title here. Curouis who are they ?? If you are member of AD and not want to post here then that is fine. You can PM me later. Are you Butch or Femme ? Any else ?

11-22-2007, 07:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
LakeTahoe Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Lost somewhere in the outer space!! Help me to find my way back home to earth!! Posts: 14,205	I'll say between if I date a woman. I don't mind femme but not toooo butch just tiny bit is acceptable for me. __________________

11-22-2007, 05:31 PM	#9 (permalink)
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11-23-2007, 05:48 PM	#12 (permalink)
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11-23-2007, 08:00 PM	#13 (permalink)
deafskeptic Premium Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 14,518	I'm neither butch or femme. Most of my interests are more typical of men than that of women but I also think of myself as a woman who happens to have little interest in things typically femme. Those who know me well find it much easier to imagine me working on Lua or Perl scripts for my favorite games than to imagine me changing the oil. BTW, I'm learning Lua. __________________ Left ear implanted with Med-El on April 24 2007. Activated on May 9th. Upgraded to Opus 2 9/10/2010 Think Pink. FREE JILLIO!

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11-21-2007, 06:03 PM	#2 (permalink)
Deafilmedia Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1,579	Butch acts like a man. I guess. Femme, I never heard of that.

11-22-2007, 12:09 AM	#4 (permalink)
Deafilmedia Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1,579	Why men have to act macho? Why women have to act so girly? I don't act like a man and I don't act like a girly. I'm just myself. I don't wear dress, makeup, earring and stuff.. I only dress casual and just act human, average person. And I don't know why Ellen Degeneres has to cut her hair so short and sit like a man... she gets on my nerves... I know she looks uncomfortable. Why can't she just be herself? Relax. Stop trying so hard. We all know she is a lesbian. She is so annoying. Trying to get or seek attention. Zzzzzzzzzzzz boring.

11-22-2007, 12:11 AM	#5 (permalink)
sequoias Premium Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Iowa, wind generation capital Posts: 21,947	"why" is your favorite word so far I've seen in the forum, deafilmedia.

11-23-2007, 05:10 PM	#11 (permalink)
Lanee Registered User Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Decatur, IN Posts: 48	Butch and Femme are reflective of the individuals. Butch is more masculine; Femme is more feminine. Still, neither identity can be placed in a neat little box, as there are plenty of Femmes who will change the oil in a car, and plenty of Butches who will spend hours in the bathroom getting ready to go somewhere. Oftentimes, Femmes (like me) can pass as straight. On the other hand, Butches often pass as teenage boys.

11-26-2007, 05:24 PM	#15 (permalink)
Mizzou Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,687	I not know why DI has guts to say that in here. I know Ellen is just fine woman and proud of herself who she is. She is biggest fan in the USA like OPRAH!!!! I seen some are Butch/Femme in real life. I was wonder about this forum... is anyone ?? Me ?? look at the mirror and cant tell who I am.

12-05-2007, 11:50 PM	#16 (permalink)
jewels10 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Ontario Posts: 31	Femme! Out for 37 years...

12-06-2007, 11:36 PM	#17 (permalink)
Splendor Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Sacramento, CA Posts: 27	I am very hot femme. __________________ The Best things in life is to do hard things.

12-25-2007, 05:35 PM	#18 (permalink)
Dixie May I be found in Him Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 13,266	I see myself as me, I am who I am. Some have pegged me as 'still-in-the-closet', my mother has even said Im dyke. But I dont care I really dont. It all rolls off like water on a ducks back. I like Ellen, I like her because she is funny and she is 100% comfortable with who she is and she understands that she can't change it. What I dont understand are the people who think homosexuality run amuck is going to send this country on a downward spiral, NOT TRUE! It is narrowminded individuals who refuse to see the broader spectrum of things and realize, that gay or straight, deaf or hearing, that every person big or small, fat or skinny deserves respect as a human being. __________________ Oh, you will. It is all a dream and since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, the dreams must be real in all their myriad forms. -Beowulf This Delicate Thing God Has Made *The world is measured in peasants; smaller than a unicorn but, bigger than a tidbit!*

12-26-2007, 08:11 PM	#21 (permalink)
Dixie May I be found in Him Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arkansas Posts: 13,266	maybe your a gay male metrosexual trapped in a woman's body?? just kidding. myself I have always been tomboy, always will be, and to be honest I find myself more curious about women's stuff than actually knowing anything about it. IE - why the hell do you have to get up everymorning and put warpaint all over your face and call it makeup?? why carry a bag full of random items when you only need less than 5 of those items at your destination?? and heres another kicker Ive never understood - why do women carry two purses on Sundays, but the rest of the time they have this HUGE saddle bag they are lugging around over their shoulder?? Sometimes I feel like Im the only woman alive that doesnt understand what its like being a woman. Weird I know. I was the girl that had all these Barbies but I had tons more fun playing with my brothers matchbox cars sets. __________________ Oh, you will. It is all a dream and since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, the dreams must be real in all their myriad forms. -Beowulf This Delicate Thing God Has Made *The world is measured in peasants; smaller than a unicorn but, bigger than a tidbit!*

12-26-2007, 08:51 PM	#22 (permalink)
Mizzou Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,687	Metrosexual male is right. That is true because I am bio-female and trapped in man body. Kids love to play with ANY toys.... cars, farm animals, dolls. I used play with animals, cars, and dolls. Sure, I am crazy Male carry their purse, too. I carry male purse.

12-27-2007, 09:21 PM	#24 (permalink)
bbdqsony Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Fort Lauderdale Posts: 47	People cannot see for themselves if they are butch or femme. For example I think I act like man, butch but I was told sometimes that I act little femme and I usually twist my hip little like spanish girl But hell I'm still cute...

12-28-2007, 05:12 PM	#25 (permalink)
Mizzou Registered User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,687	bbdqsony - you sounds cutie when you said "I usually twist my hip little like spanish girl". I been there when I was young. Oh silly me! I watch half of show from last night about transgender KIDS. Interesting and think you maybe like to read this link. 'Born in the Wrong Body' - Documentaries - MSNBC.com

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