What are you thinking about? Part IV - Page 158

**Jiro** · 08-03-2011, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Dixie

Basically crack whore thin?

oh god not THAT thin. That obviously looks unhealthy and malnourished.

But I'm just referring to normal girls who are just "Paris Hilton" thin which makes me want to feed them more. I like "athletic thin" girl. This reminds me of my old thread - Guys/Lesbian/All - What's Your Ideal Type?

I like #2. wouldn't mind #3 either.

**Jiro** · 08-03-2011, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Thinking that no child should EVER be taken away from a parent or their only blood sibling. EVER unless there was abuse or neglect involved.

uh-oh. what happened?

**shel90** · 08-03-2011, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

uh-oh. what happened?

Just missing my daughter very much right now. Not understanding why my ex hubby is such a sick asshole to move to AZ for no reason. He couldnt just ****ing wait until she was 18?

I hate him and his girlfriend so much. He owned a house that his soon to be ex sister in law was living in. Just last week, he decided to kick her and her kids out of the hosue because she and his brother are divorcing. Now, my daughter's cousins will be homeless. Then at the terminal today, he texted my daughter telling her not to contact her cousins or he will have her phone taken away. She started crying because she was close to her cousins so I spent 20 mins trying to cheer her up so she wont be bawling by herself on the flight back.

What sick **** does this shit? I read the text and I couldnt believe it.

dogmom · 08-03-2011, 10:54 PM

Sorry to read this, Shel

**KristinaB** · 08-03-2011, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Just missing my daughter very much right now. Not understanding why my ex hubby is such a sick asshole to move to AZ for no reason. He couldnt just ****ing wait until she was 18?

I hate him and his girlfriend so much. He owned a house that his soon to be ex sister in law was living in. Just last week, he decided to kick her and her kids out of the hosue because she and his brother are divorcing. Now, my daughter's cousins will be homeless. Then at the terminal today, he texted my daughter telling her not to contact her cousins or he will have her phone taken away. She started crying because she was close to her cousins so I spent 20 mins trying to cheer her up so she wont be bawling by herself on the flight back.

What sick **** does this shit? I read the text and I couldnt believe it.

I wonder, could this info that he texted her be put in some file that could possible go against him if she ever wanted to return to you and asked a judge to help her?

**Jiro** · 08-03-2011, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Just missing my daughter very much right now. Not understanding why my ex hubby is such a sick asshole to move to AZ for no reason. He couldnt just ****ing wait until she was 18?

I hate him and his girlfriend so much. He owned a house that his soon to be ex sister in law was living in. Just last week, he decided to kick her and her kids out of the hosue because she and his brother are divorcing. Now, my daughter's cousins will be homeless. Then at the terminal today, he texted my daughter telling her not to contact her cousins or he will have her phone taken away. She started crying because she was close to her cousins so I spent 20 mins trying to cheer her up so she wont be bawling by herself on the flight back.

What sick **** does this shit? I read the text and I couldnt believe it.

how much crueler can he get??? well don't worry. there's only one person who is the cruelest one in the world. His name is Satan. He's very thrilled to meet him.

**Jiro** · 08-03-2011, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by KristinaB

I wonder, could this info that he texted her be put in some file that could possible go against him if she ever wanted to return to you and asked a judge to help her?

It doesn't serve any purpose. All parents are allowed to tell their children who to talk to or not.

**KristinaB** · 08-03-2011, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

It doesn't serve any purpose. All parents are allowed to tell their children who to talk to or not.

Yeah I guess. It just seems that he's being vindictive as all get out. I can't see him refusing access to her cousins or to any family member related by blood. It all boils down to mental and emotional cruelty and that should be able to be factored in.

**deafskeptic** · 08-03-2011, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Just missing my daughter very much right now. Not understanding why my ex hubby is such a sick asshole to move to AZ for no reason. He couldnt just ****ing wait until she was 18?

I hate him and his girlfriend so much. He owned a house that his soon to be ex sister in law was living in. Just last week, he decided to kick her and her kids out of the hosue because she and his brother are divorcing. Now, my daughter's cousins will be homeless. Then at the terminal today, he texted my daughter telling her not to contact her cousins or he will have her phone taken away. She started crying because she was close to her cousins so I spent 20 mins trying to cheer her up so she wont be bawling by herself on the flight back.

What sick **** does this shit? I read the text and I couldnt believe it.

Jesus.

**Dixie** · 08-03-2011, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Just missing my daughter very much right now. Not understanding why my ex hubby is such a sick asshole to move to AZ for no reason. He couldnt just ****ing wait until she was 18?

I hate him and his girlfriend so much. He owned a house that his soon to be ex sister in law was living in. Just last week, he decided to kick her and her kids out of the hosue because she and his brother are divorcing. Now, my daughter's cousins will be homeless. Then at the terminal today, he texted my daughter telling her not to contact her cousins or he will have her phone taken away. She started crying because she was close to her cousins so I spent 20 mins trying to cheer her up so she wont be bawling by herself on the flight back.

What sick **** does this shit? I read the text and I couldnt believe it.

Good grief. Your ex-hubby needs to have his head checked! Well if she is of age to choose, all she has to do is say she wants to move back to your house in court before a judge. I am sure that you would make very certain that it could be arranged.

Miss-Delectable · 08-04-2011, 12:11 AM

Whoa, your ex hubby sounds like a sociopath because he did not have consideration for her or her feelings. *smh*.

**shel90** · 08-04-2011, 06:02 AM

Yea, if she says she wants to move back, I will let her.

My daughter texted me saying that she is in AZ and fine. I am sure she is asking him a lot of questions about this whole situation.

She has never complained about him except that he is strict and she said that this recent situation is so unlike him.

If he doesnt want her to have contact with her cousins,why couldnt he wait until she returns to tell her, not through text just before she boards the plane!

My hubby said he is just beyond cruel and my daughter will see his true colors eventually. Important that I dont say anything bad about him to her. I just told her that anytime she needs to talk or vent, VP me.

Wait and see what happens.

**deafskeptic** · 08-04-2011, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Yea, if she says she wants to move back, I will let her.

My daughter texted me saying that she is in AZ and fine. I am sure she is asking him a lot of questions about this whole situation.

She has never complained about him except that he is strict and she said that this recent situation is so unlike him.

If he doesnt want her to have contact with her cousins,why couldnt he wait until she returns to tell her, not through text just before she boards the plane!

My hubby said he is just beyond cruel and my daughter will see his true colors eventually. Important that I dont say anything bad about him to her. I just told her that anytime she needs to talk or vent, VP me.

Wait and see what happens.

I just hope that's all he's going to do. I'm sure you're worried about this whole thing.

Frisky Feline · 08-04-2011, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Just missing my daughter very much right now. Not understanding why my ex hubby is such a sick asshole to move to AZ for no reason. He couldnt just ****ing wait until she was 18?

I hate him and his girlfriend so much. He owned a house that his soon to be ex sister in law was living in. Just last week, he decided to kick her and her kids out of the hosue because she and his brother are divorcing. Now, my daughter's cousins will be homeless. Then at the terminal today, he texted my daughter telling her not to contact her cousins or he will have her phone taken away. She started crying because she was close to her cousins so I spent 20 mins trying to cheer her up so she wont be bawling by herself on the flight back.

What sick **** does this shit? I read the text and I couldnt believe it.

he lost his marbles real bad.

**shel90** · 08-04-2011, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by deafskeptic

I just hope that's all he's going to do. I'm sure you're worried about this whole thing.

He is just a controlling freak and it looks like it is starting with my daughter. Eventually, she will get sick of it and it will hurt their relationship. I dont feel for him if that happens but I would feel bad for her.

My half brother's dad (mom's ex boyfriend) was the exact same way with my mom when they were together and he was a baby. They split when he was 5 so he started trying to control him and now he is 22 years old. He told me that he feels more comfortable with our mom than with his dad.

Royale · 08-04-2011, 11:48 AM

I am thinking of my Deaf cat. I just hope he is okay after I forgot to feed him for his nighttime snack right before my bedtime. In the morning I made up with him by feeding his breakfast twice.

LoveBlue · 08-04-2011, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Royale

I am thinking of my Deaf cat. I just hope he is okay after I forgot to feed him for his nighttime snack right before my bedtime. In the morning I made up with him by feeding his breakfast twice.

If he didn't wake you up during the night, I'm sure he's fine.

lanapoo · 08-04-2011, 12:38 PM

Wirelessly posted

Packing my apartment up and getting ready for a big move. And Im never coming back to New York. Im going somewhere where my heart truly belongs and for a fresh start.

posts from hell · 08-04-2011, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lanapoo

Wirelessly posted

Packing my apartment up and getting ready for a big move. And Im never coming back to New York. Im going somewhere where my heart truly belongs and for a fresh start.

All the three boxes?

**KristinaB** · 08-04-2011, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Yea, if she says she wants to move back, I will let her.

My daughter texted me saying that she is in AZ and fine. I am sure she is asking him a lot of questions about this whole situation.

She has never complained about him except that he is strict and she said that this recent situation is so unlike him.

If he doesnt want her to have contact with her cousins,why couldnt he wait until she returns to tell her, not through text just before she boards the plane!

My hubby said he is just beyond cruel and my daughter will see his true colors eventually. Important that I dont say anything bad about him to her. I just told her that anytime she needs to talk or vent, VP me.

Wait and see what happens.

I think you are doing wonderfully well with the whole situation.

**KristinaB** · 08-04-2011, 01:08 PM

I am thinking that it's really hard to correct a wrong that you did, when you have apologized and are willing to just move on and stay on the straight and narrow, but some jerk has to come along and bring it all back up again.

**Jiro** · 08-04-2011, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by lanapoo

Wirelessly posted

Packing my apartment up and getting ready for a big move. And Im never coming back to New York. Im going somewhere where my heart truly belongs and for a fresh start.

where to? California?

jillio · 08-04-2011, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

Dont I know that!!! That's one of the reasons why I put that on my FB status because some of my friends on my FB still are associated with my ex hubby so I hope they send that message to him and show what an asshole he is.

Sneaky! I love it! But I agree. It is such a shame that they have to be separated just because of a selfish adult that wants his way.

lanapoo · 08-04-2011, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by posts from hell

All the three boxes?

Yeah, for my shoes alone.

**sallylou** · 08-04-2011, 02:34 PM

Wirelessly posted (droid)

Good luck, lanapoo! Hope that you enjoy your new adventure.

**Bottesini** · 08-04-2011, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Royale

I am thinking of my Deaf cat. I just hope he is okay after I forgot to feed him for his nighttime snack right before my bedtime. In the morning I made up with him by feeding his breakfast twice.

Sensivitive cat? You should buy him a fuzzy mouse on the way home!

Frisky Feline · 08-04-2011, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Royale

I am thinking of my Deaf cat. I just hope he is okay after I forgot to feed him for his nighttime snack right before my bedtime. In the morning I made up with him by feeding his breakfast twice.

surprise kitty does not bother you. One of my 3 kitties smacked on my face when i was sleeping. But it was morning.

Royale · 08-04-2011, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

surprise kitty does not bother you. One of my 3 kitties smacked on my face when i was sleeping. But it was morning.

Oh he can wake me up a few times in mornings sometimes.

last week, he tried to wake me up every hour several times although there were enough food on plate for him.

Babyblue · 08-04-2011, 03:04 PM

Thinking that I am almost done with school... Cram time.. Going to registure with the state then get ready for externship and prepairing for my PTCB exam. WOOOT.. First day of my externship will be Aug 17th.

Royale · 08-04-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by lanapoo

Yeah, for my shoes alone.

You sound like Imelda Macros, widow of former Philippines President.

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Miss-Delectable V.I.P. Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 17,174 Blog Entries: 3	Whoa, your ex hubby sounds like a sociopath because he did not have consideration for her or her feelings. smh. __________________ "Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light." - Helen Keller

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shel90 Let It Snow!!!! Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: A place where crabs are popular Posts: 40,303 Blog Entries: 3	Yea, if she says she wants to move back, I will let her. My daughter texted me saying that she is in AZ and fine. I am sure she is asking him a lot of questions about this whole situation. She has never complained about him except that he is strict and she said that this recent situation is so unlike him. If he doesnt want her to have contact with her cousins,why couldnt he wait until she returns to tell her, not through text just before she boards the plane! My hubby said he is just beyond cruel and my daughter will see his true colors eventually. Important that I dont say anything bad about him to her. I just told her that anytime she needs to talk or vent, VP me. Wait and see what happens. Dixie likes this. __________________ "Wine improves with age. The older I get, the better I like it." --- Anonymous

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lanapoo Registered User Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Golden State Posts: 2,568	Wirelessly posted Packing my apartment up and getting ready for a big move. And Im never coming back to New York. Im going somewhere where my heart truly belongs and for a fresh start. Beach girl likes this. __________________ Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.

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