What are you thinking about? Part II - Page 14

**Jiro** · 01-26-2010, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by KristinaB

Because there is too much anger in the world these days. I remember when TV didn't show as much anger and people were generally nicer and more pleasant.

I do have one, count it, one friend who had a very friendly divorce. She didn't want it and was willing to overlook his faults, but he felt guilty because he was the one running around and sleeping around and knew it was affecting her Christian beliefs that he did not share. He divorced her and gave her triple the alimony and double the child support as well as a new car every year (he owned 32 dealerships at the time) and paid for her 2nd marriage and still pays her the money in alimony even after she remarried. New cars also went to her parents until their deaths. He has now sold all of his dealerships and moved on, but he still send her money every month. They've been divorced for 30 years.

w....o.....w.......... that is an overkill generosity... Hope my sugar mama would do that for me

but yea... these days... people are such a douchebag and petty when it comes to break-up. ALL of my relationships ended very amicably and we continue to stay in touch. Every time I hear about what the ex did to others... the more it makes me feel like I want to be Teddy Kaczynski (minus his terrorist activity) - just live in a quiet quaint cabin in middle of nowhere, away from the society.

**Jiro** · 01-26-2010, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Juli-terp-to-be

Jinxed, it seems when is the woman that leaves and asks for the divorce. It makes the men petty, stupid and vindictive. My ex won't allow my son to bring any of the clothes that he has bought him with him when I have him for the weekend. He will actually make my son wear clothes that are becoming too small for him to my house. Stupid and petty.

what? why??

jinxedkitten · 01-26-2010, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Juli-terp-to-be

Jinxed, it seems when is the woman that leaves and asks for the divorce. It makes the men petty, stupid and vindictive.

I agree with you here. I guess the former cop dislikes having someone break free from his tight grip, hence the childish games. He is seven years older than me (30 years old), you'd think he would be a little more mature?

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Originally Posted by KristinaB

I do have one, count it, one friend who had a very friendly divorce. She didn't want it and was willing to overlook his faults, but he felt guilty because he was the one running around and sleeping around and knew it was affecting her Christian beliefs that he did not share.

Ah, too bad my ex doesn't feel guilt... or anything at all,

I'd be well off. Fortunately, my gamble to request ZERO alimony and child support paid off. I have a comfortable salary AND my divorce will be finalized in the summer

smooth break! I just need to ignore the t-shirts and accidentally shrink them during laundry day?

Lighthouse77 · 01-26-2010, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by jinxedkitten

Oy, I can't stop shaking my head.

I had this tradition when I was in a relationship with my son's father and it's DEFINITELY biting me in the fanny (_Y_) Every Father's Day, my son wears a brand new shirt that states how much he loves his Daddy. Harmless and sappy right? o_O

Wrong. My ex has been dropping off my son in the morning before he heads for work and oh guess what, my son wears a "My Daddy is Number one" type of shirt every single time. What the heck? I pretend not to notice but how childish is that, the game is painfully obvious and I secretly scoff when I take off my son's coat.

I have just one shirt that is mommy inspired (which I bought of course) but I can't imagine making my son wear "My mom rules!" when I drop him off at the "in-laws". Where's the common sense in that

Blah.. need to take a chill pill, if this is the climax of my divorce drama then I guess I lucked out right? =)

Don't sweat the small stuff

He'll eventually get tired of it.

Lighthouse77 · 01-26-2010, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

why can't people just divorce amicably these days?

Humans. I don't know why relationships alway have to end so bitterly to some people. Even I had a relationship like that.

Lighthouse77 · 01-26-2010, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by KristinaB

Because there is too much anger in the world these days. I remember when TV didn't show as much anger and people were generally nicer and more pleasant.

I do have one, count it, one friend who had a very friendly divorce. She didn't want it and was willing to overlook his faults, but he felt guilty because he was the one running around and sleeping around and knew it was affecting her Christian beliefs that he did not share. He divorced her and gave her triple the alimony and double the child support as well as a new car every year (he owned 32 dealerships at the time) and paid for her 2nd marriage and still pays her the money in alimony even after she remarried. New cars also went to her parents until their deaths. He has now sold all of his dealerships and moved on, but he still send her money every month. They've been divorced for 30 years.

Like Julia mentioned, when it was the woman who wanted the divorce, who know what kind of man your friend's exhusband would turned out to be.

jinxedkitten · 01-26-2010, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Lighthouse77

Don't sweat the small stuff

He'll eventually get tired of it.

I hope so, like I said... I am fortunate that I only have to put up with the "small stuff"

I simply need to grin and bear it. AD is a good outlet for my "vents" though

and it seems that I am not alone.

NorCal20 · 01-26-2010, 02:54 PM

to thinking how to write short paragraph for yearbook's.

Yearbook editor asked me to write something about my JV girls basketball team.

**Jiro** · 01-26-2010, 02:55 PM

thinking how disappointing it is that my ASL Class is canceled for rest of the months due to too few students. Gotta wait till March

Loghead · 01-26-2010, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by NorCal20

to thinking how to write short paragraph for yearbook's.

Yearbook editor asked me to write something about my JV girls basketball team.

I wrote pretty much all of the write-ups for the yearbook last year. If I didn't write it, I editted it. My advice: be really biased. Make it sound like they're the best.

Frisky Feline · 01-26-2010, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

thinking how disappointing it is that my ASL Class is canceled for rest of the months due to too few students. Gotta wait till March

I am so sorry. well you ll have a brief class which is on sat night.

oh also you will have a short one friday evening.

Hope you will get one in March.

Frisky Feline · 01-26-2010, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by jinxedkitten

Oy, I can't stop shaking my head.

I had this tradition when I was in a relationship with my son's father and it's DEFINITELY biting me in the fanny (_Y_) Every Father's Day, my son wears a brand new shirt that states how much he loves his Daddy. Harmless and sappy right? o_O

Wrong. My ex has been dropping off my son in the morning before he heads for work and oh guess what, my son wears a "My Daddy is Number one" type of shirt every single time. What the heck? I pretend not to notice but how childish is that, the game is painfully obvious and I secretly scoff when I take off my son's coat.

I have just one shirt that is mommy inspired (which I bought of course) but I can't imagine making my son wear "My mom rules!" when I drop him off at the "in-laws". Where's the common sense in that

Blah.. need to take a chill pill, if this is the climax of my divorce drama then I guess I lucked out right? =)

I am at a loss what to say.

But I have to tell you one thing at the bold and red you wrote, i did giggle. =^.x.^=

**KristinaB** · 01-26-2010, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

thinking how disappointing it is that my ASL Class is canceled for rest of the months due to too few students. Gotta wait till March

That's a bummer!! I got an email from the instructor of my class that starts tomorrow night and he says that class is still on and we have a very large class and to be prepared. He also sent me another email that wasn't sent to the others saying he was looking forward to having me in class since I will be his first and only deaf person. Everyone else is a family member of hoh people. He is planning on making videos of each class and making sure I get them, and will send me all of the power point presentations he does and copies of all of his notes as well as the materials for everyone.

Lighthouse77 · 01-26-2010, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by jinxedkitten

I hope so, like I said... I am fortunate that I only have to put up with the "small stuff"

I simply need to grin and bear it. AD is a good outlet for my "vents" though

and it seems that I am not alone.

on the other hand, maybe you should sweat over small stuffs? LOL don't want him to do something bigger to grab your attention

posts from hell · 01-26-2010, 04:32 PM

how i had an interpreter that told me I was too "ASL" for her yesterday. it was a drag.

noob interpreters suck

hohDougRN · 01-26-2010, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by KristinaB

That's a bummer!! I got an email from the instructor of my class that starts tomorrow night and he says that class is still on and we have a very large class and to be prepared. He also sent me another email that wasn't sent to the others saying he was looking forward to having me in class since I will be his first and only deaf person. Everyone else is a family member of hoh people. He is planning on making videos of each class and making sure I get them, and will send me all of the power point presentations he does and copies of all of his notes as well as the materials for everyone.

How many days a week is your class? I think ASL class is so much fun. I only took it at the college and it goes fast and class every weekday, which really helps to help your mind rehearse. And don't forget all the nights in the mirror rehearsing- it really helps

**KristinaB** · 01-26-2010, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by hohDougRN

How many days a week is your class? I think ASL class is so much fun. I only took it at the college and it goes fast and class every weekday, which really helps to help your mind rehearse. And don't forget all the nights in the mirror rehearsing- it really helps

Class is once a week for 9 weeks. Offered by our local Dear Service Center here in West Palm Beach, FL. They have it at least 2 times a years sometimes 4 times.

posts from hell · 01-26-2010, 09:34 PM

Just thinking of finding samples of Aceto Balsamico Tradizionale.

souggy · 01-26-2010, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by posts from hell

how i had an interpreter that told me I was too "ASL" for her yesterday. it was a drag.

noob interpreters suck

**KristinaB** · 01-26-2010, 09:44 PM

Am thinking I had a very trying afternoon after a good morning and an even worse evening. Home life sucks, some people on AD suck and I'm giving it up for the night. Be back tomorrow and hopefully it will be a better day.

**Bottesini** · 01-26-2010, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by KristinaB

Am thinking I had a very trying afternoon after a good morning and an even worse evening. Home life sucks, some people on AD suck and I'm giving it up for the night. Be back tomorrow and hopefully it will be a better day.

Good night Kristina. Usually it is always better after a bad day.

faire_jour · 01-26-2010, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by posts from hell

how i had an interpreter that told me I was too "ASL" for her yesterday. it was a drag.

noob interpreters suck

I worry about this when we mainstream Miss Kat. I want someone who isn't still learning! Why would I want them to learn on my kid's educational "dime". Forget that!

posts from hell · 01-26-2010, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by faire_jour

I worry about this when we mainstream Miss Kat. I want someone who isn't still learning! Why would I want them to learn on my kid's educational "dime". Forget that!

Yeah... I've seen plenty of that too. fkin' twats.

faire_jour · 01-26-2010, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by posts from hell

Yeah... I've seen plenty of that too. fkin' twats.

Wow, twats....don't run into that word in polite company much!

posts from hell · 01-26-2010, 09:54 PM

However, lemme clarify - the interp i had was an older lady, learned interpreting in the 80's when SEE was the "biggest thing".. ...to flop.

souggy · 01-26-2010, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by faire_jour

Wow, twats....don't run into that word in polite company much!

Move to Canada.

posts from hell · 01-26-2010, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by faire_jour

Wow, twats....don't run into that word in polite company much!

Just still venting from my "public school" days..

faire_jour · 01-26-2010, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by posts from hell

Just still venting from my "public school" days..

Man, if you were mainstreamed you are lucky to know the word!

Juli-terp-to-be · 01-26-2010, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

what? why??

I am be insulting donkeys but......MY EX IS AN ASS!!!! Since I took all of my son's clothes with me when we left. He says that we can have our own set of clothes for Demetri. My son is going to be 13 in August and he already is 135lbs. and 5'6". He doesn't care that I cannot afford to get Demetri an entire wardrobe of clothes. & my parents are retired, so I can't just ask them to provide him with one (though I know that they would in a heartbeat)

Juli-terp-to-be · 01-26-2010, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jinxedkitten

I agree with you here. I guess the former cop dislikes having someone break free from his tight grip, hence the childish games. He is seven years older than me (30 years old), you'd think he would be a little more mature?

I understand that completely, my ex is 8yrs older than me. LOL age & maturity DO NOT go hand in hand. And sometimes people in positions of authority can be the hardest to deal with.

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