Byrdie Situation UPDATE! - Page 15

jillio · 05-14-2009, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by naisho

For Jillio's defense, I found something:

How to solve courtroom injustice?
01-01-2008, 09:07 AM PST

Click on the little blue arrow in the quote to be streamed to the post in the thread.

Thank you, naisho.

One of my bans was the result of my refusing to accept his lies.

**Liebling:-)))** · 05-14-2009, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Frisky Feline

Yea now we all know that he's reading everything what its said here.

Who cares? I see why not to let him know what we think of him because it´s truth.

moonflower · 05-14-2009, 12:17 PM

now that Brydie is BUSTED big time

Buffalo · 05-14-2009, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by DeafLissa90

Byrdie's from Ohio? I thought Washington.

I read that so-called obit. I also read of his losing his daughter Ally just before Christmas years ago. That she was murdered by her own mother. He also said that he found three presents from Ally and that he can't wait to open them at Christmas (this past Christmas). Well, when I saw that he came from Ohio and the fake obit said that due to personal reasons, he moved out of Ohio to live in Oregon. That is when I tried to google Ally (Allison DeEmma) along with "Ohio" but couldn't find anything. I thought it would made into the news as it was just before Christmas. Then I found out that Bexley is just outside Columbus so I thought maybe it didn't made into the news in a large city. Now we know the truth.

jillio · 05-14-2009, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))

Jillio, I never doubt you because I know for the sure that you are being victim like rest of us... I suggest Daredevel at 6 pages post this morning.

AllDeaf.com - View Single Post - Byrdie Situation UPDATE!

Thank you, Leibling. And I do believe, looking back, that is exactly what happened. I always received an email shortly after a post from "Squirt" would show up, or shortly before a post from "Squirt" would show up. I think while he was online, he was also sending me emails from "Rich." I don't believe that a person by this name even exists.

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 12:20 PM

I was told he was from Washington

Adamsmomma · 05-14-2009, 12:24 PM

OK I just got thru fourteen pages of this post... Shew~~I should be working!! LOL

I am in SHOCK!!! I was struck by the initial 'passing' of Byrdie this week for some reason-- although I didn't know him WELL and am rather new here... it just brought up the fact that life is short and we never know when it's over... and having just lost my dad a month ago-- it brought up some of those unresolved issues... so when I read Candy's first post I was stunned...

It pisses me off beyond belief when someone uses death-- theirs or a family members-- to pull something over on people... when my Grandma died in 2006 a FORMER friend used the excuse her brother died to get off work for a couple days (he didn't die!!)-- she was supposed to be taking care of my cats for me while I was AT my Gma's funeral so I was in contact w/her the whole week... when her office called ME to see where to send flowers (we were best buds at the time) I was mortified... why someone would do that?? That was the last PSYCHO thing she pulled w/me...

Sometimes it takes an extreme event like this to let you see the real person-- online, in real life, etc...

I am so sorry for all the REAL emotion people felt, the hurt they experienced when they thought they lost a 'friend' and now... this is unacceptable and horrible.

Thank you to the Mod's for watching out for us and protecting us as a community!!!

(PS Jiro, your cartoon cracked me up!!!)

darkdog · 05-14-2009, 12:32 PM

Using state-of-the-art investigative techniques (aka Google) I found that someone named Richard Weaver exists along with Mark Byrd.

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Farther up the coast in Ocean Beach, Wash., is a relaxing cabin retreat called Shakti Cove, owned by Harrit Cavalli. The lesbian-owned, gay-operated resort offers modest cabins on three acres of green space. Close to the beach and 30 minutes away from Astoria, this dog-friendly resort provides an affordable weekend getaway. Cove keepers Mark Byrd and Rich Weaver offer hospitality that has long been forgotten by many hotels. Steeped in rustic chic, the accommodations of Shakti Cove offer the quintessential Northwest coastal experience. The cabins are an excellent home base for the queer traveler.

Gay & Lesbian News Portland Oregon

So apparently they're cove keepers, but if you go to the Shakti Cove website, their names are not listed among the owners at the bottom.
Shakti Cove Cottages : GLBTA friendly escape on the Long Beach Peninsula

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 12:35 PM

I have also used google and found there is Byrdie714 on several forums, mostly on travelling websites and that link you stated

jillio · 05-14-2009, 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darkdog

Using state-of-the-art investigative techniques (aka Google) I found that someone named Richard Weaver exists along with Mark Byrd.

Gay & Lesbian News Portland Oregon

So apparently they're cove keepers, but if you go to the Shakti Cove website, their names are not listed among the owners at the bottom.
Shakti Cove Cottages : GLBTA friendly escape on the Long Beach Peninsula

Then Rich has no doubt been a victim as well. Or a participant.

Celticty · 05-14-2009, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by DeafLissa90

Byrdie's from Ohio? I thought Washington.

He is in Washington. Spokane Washington.

Frisky Feline · 05-14-2009, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))

Who cares? I see why not to let him know what we think of him because it´s truth.

Yep. Let him know what friendship is all or means about that those members here are pretty upset. He needed to know about this one.

**deafskeptic** · 05-14-2009, 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darkdog

Using state-of-the-art investigative techniques (aka Google) I found that someone named Richard Weaver exists along with Mark Byrd.

Gay & Lesbian News Portland Oregon

So apparently they're cove keepers, but if you go to the Shakti Cove website, their names are not listed among the owners at the bottom.
Shakti Cove Cottages : GLBTA friendly escape on the Long Beach Peninsula

I wonder if the owners are aware of the other website?

darkdog · 05-14-2009, 12:53 PM

Found his LiveJournal. byrdie714's Journal

I also found him reviewing his own workplace. Note the compliment he gave to the "CoveKeepers":

Quote:

The "CoveKeepers" were hospitable, nice and knowledgeable of where to go, what to see, and where to eat as well as taking care of their beach cottages--no easy task!

Cozy, Rustic Beach Cottages - Review of Shakti Cove Cottages, Ocean Park, WA - TripAdvisor

I'm sure they were, Byrdie. I'm sure they were.

Secretblend · 05-14-2009, 12:56 PM

May I suggest something? Despite the fact of his wrongdoing, lets not go on a witch hunt. Lets just put him behind us and go on and enjoy the site the way it was meant to be enjoyed.

jillio · 05-14-2009, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Secretblend

May I suggest something? Despite the fact of his wrongdoing, lets not go on a witch hunt. Lets just put him behind us and go on and enjoy the site the way it was meant to be enjoyed.

I agree. To engage in this is simply to lower ourselves to his standards.

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 01:00 PM

agreed Secretblend & Jillio. DO NOT LET HIM WIN, ADERS!

**Liebling:-)))** · 05-14-2009, 01:02 PM

Yes, I´m with you on this.

moonflower · 05-14-2009, 01:03 PM

agree with Jiro don't let brydie win let US win as we be strong link as brydie become weak link

Buffalo · 05-14-2009, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Secretblend

May I suggest something? Despite the fact of his wrongdoing, lets not go on a witch hunt. Lets just put him behind us and go on and enjoy the site the way it was meant to be enjoyed.

Yup, since he "died" so we should make sure he stays dead in the AD.

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 01:04 PM

I agree! He's probably just waiting for us to get mad at him, but that'll give him more kicks

Adamsmomma · 05-14-2009, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

I agree. To engage in this is simply to lower ourselves to his standards.

Good Point jillio PLUS by doing that also gives him the attention he is seeking... especially since I'm pretty sure he's reading these even if he can't reply... ya know?? So why let him have that satisfaction?? By doing so is letting him play w/you more~~

darkdog · 05-14-2009, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jillio

I agree. To engage in this is simply to lower ourselves to his standards.

Fair enough, but trying to find information about who this guy really is is light-years away from faking one's own death.

jillio · 05-14-2009, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by darkdog

Fair enough, but trying to find information about who this guy really is is light-years away from faking one's own death.

Perhaps that is your percpetion. Look for information if you choose. We are simply requesting that you not feed into the hurtful hoax that has been perpetrated on members of AD. It does nothing to help the pain heal, and in fact, keeps the cycle going. Not to mention which, as Adamsmomma mentioned, it enables the distorted thought processes of the individual that did this.

darkdog · 05-14-2009, 01:25 PM

After pages and pages of people speculating who this guy is and wanting to know what his true story really was, if people decide they want to move on, I'm fine with that. No more from me. But let's keep our pespectives straight- finding information that may help answer some of these questions is nowhere near faking a death and hurting a community.

deafbajagal · 05-14-2009, 01:26 PM

I think we should stop posting about this whole ordeal...there is really nothing more that can be added that has not been said.
Why glorify the incident. The more we post and discuss it, the more we are adding fuel to the fire.

**sequoias** · 05-14-2009, 01:28 PM

Uh oh, the fire grew too big and we gotta get a plane to put it out. *running in circles*

Lighthouse77 · 05-14-2009, 01:29 PM

Well for me, I just don't want to be wrong about people so I like to hear the whole story before I make my judgment. Especially if I have been friend with someone for a long time. I'm sure others feel the same way.

Secretblend · 05-14-2009, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by sequoias

Uh oh, the fire grew too big and we gotta get a plane to put it out. *running in circles*

Are you dizzy yet? If so, Stop running in circles!!

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 01:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sequoias

Uh oh, the fire grew too big and we gotta get a plane to put it out. *running in circles*

05-14-2009, 12:20 PM	#426 (permalink)
Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,298 Blog Entries: 1	I was told he was from Washington __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

05-14-2009, 12:24 PM	#427 (permalink)
Adamsmomma Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Kentucky Posts: 1,121	OK I just got thru fourteen pages of this post... Shew~~I should be working!! LOL I am in SHOCK!!! I was struck by the initial 'passing' of Byrdie this week for some reason-- although I didn't know him WELL and am rather new here... it just brought up the fact that life is short and we never know when it's over... and having just lost my dad a month ago-- it brought up some of those unresolved issues... so when I read Candy's first post I was stunned... It pisses me off beyond belief when someone uses death-- theirs or a family members-- to pull something over on people... when my Grandma died in 2006 a FORMER friend used the excuse her brother died to get off work for a couple days (he didn't die!!)-- she was supposed to be taking care of my cats for me while I was AT my Gma's funeral so I was in contact w/her the whole week... when her office called ME to see where to send flowers (we were best buds at the time) I was mortified... why someone would do that?? That was the last PSYCHO thing she pulled w/me... Sometimes it takes an extreme event like this to let you see the real person-- online, in real life, etc... I am so sorry for all the REAL emotion people felt, the hurt they experienced when they thought they lost a 'friend' and now... this is unacceptable and horrible. Thank you to the Mod's for watching out for us and protecting us as a community!!! (PS Jiro, your cartoon cracked me up!!!) __________________ Proud Momma to a toddler who apparently has a unilateral profound hearing loss?!?! He's quickly learning to sign and talk more each day-- we're starting on a new journey of learning ASL together-- this is going to be a fun ride!!! -- cheesing for the camera-- as always

05-14-2009, 12:35 PM	#429 (permalink)
Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,298 Blog Entries: 1	I have also used google and found there is Byrdie714 on several forums, mostly on travelling websites and that link you stated __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

05-14-2009, 01:00 PM	#437 (permalink)
Jiro Aparecium Deletrius Legil Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: The Soprano State Posts: 61,221	agreed Secretblend & Jillio. DO NOT LET HIM WIN, ADERS! __________________ - Don't forget to buy Jiro's Special Edition Sunglasses for $19.95

05-14-2009, 01:02 PM	#438 (permalink)
Liebling:-))) Sussi 7.7.86 - 18.6.09 Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 31,032	Yes, I´m with you on this. __________________

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05-14-2009, 12:17 PM	#423 (permalink)
moonflower Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 5,762	now that Brydie is BUSTED big time

05-14-2009, 12:56 PM	#435 (permalink)
Secretblend Registered User Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: San Antonio Posts: 3,747	May I suggest something? Despite the fact of his wrongdoing, lets not go on a witch hunt. Lets just put him behind us and go on and enjoy the site the way it was meant to be enjoyed.

05-14-2009, 01:03 PM	#439 (permalink)
moonflower Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 5,762	agree with Jiro don't let brydie win let US win as we be strong link as brydie become weak link

05-14-2009, 01:04 PM	#441 (permalink)
Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,298 Blog Entries: 1	I agree! He's probably just waiting for us to get mad at him, but that'll give him more kicks __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

05-14-2009, 01:25 PM	#445 (permalink)
darkdog Registered User Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Dallas, TX Posts: 1,354	After pages and pages of people speculating who this guy is and wanting to know what his true story really was, if people decide they want to move on, I'm fine with that. No more from me. But let's keep our pespectives straight- finding information that may help answer some of these questions is nowhere near faking a death and hurting a community. __________________ Playing guitar is my 2nd amendment right.

05-14-2009, 01:26 PM	#446 (permalink)
deafbajagal Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: USA Posts: 5,171	I think we should stop posting about this whole ordeal...there is really nothing more that can be added that has not been said. Why glorify the incident. The more we post and discuss it, the more we are adding fuel to the fire.

05-14-2009, 01:28 PM	#447 (permalink)
sequoias Premium Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Iowa, wind generation capital Posts: 21,947	Uh oh, the fire grew too big and we gotta get a plane to put it out. running in circles

05-14-2009, 01:29 PM	#448 (permalink)
Lighthouse77 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,167	Well for me, I just don't want to be wrong about people so I like to hear the whole story before I make my judgment. Especially if I have been friend with someone for a long time. I'm sure others feel the same way. __________________ Good thing about standards is that there are so many of them to choose from.

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