Byrdie Situation UPDATE! - Page 13

jillio · 05-14-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by moonflower

oops my mistake jillio you right of course

Not a problem. Just clarifying. I often log in from the university or my other job at the shelter which is different than my home IP.

Grummer · 05-14-2009, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrs Bucket

I don't know. I think the obit pretty much spoke for himself and his character.

He travelled 40+ countries, entered university against all odds & graduated with a 3.8 GPA, 6'4', claims he's well hung just like his height, flirts with both sexes left and right in the adult section, post his derriere picture and isn't afraid to flirt with the young gay males here.

I think his actions spoke louder than we all wished to see.

He's an attention seeking narcissist. He does like to share stories that has this community shifting attention to him. He seeks conflicts and actively involves himself in confrontations.

He PMs members to seek information .. make that dirt.. about members.

I know he has done that to me when I was in a heated debate. He'd PM to egg the members only to contribute negatively.

I'm just looking at this outside the box.

Byrdie fits this criteria- "Narcissistic personality disorder"

[/LIST]Well, I don't know what defines Byrdie if not that.

****ing hell, id say this is a good description, pretty spot-on, but I dont know shit about psychology to be able to vouch for it, but as for me, id say its a good guess

ASLGAL · 05-14-2009, 10:30 AM

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If you subscribe your household to DSL or cable companies then IP will be same for anyone whoever is in your household.

Right. I was just wondering, since this the ISP # was one of the tip off points for CandyBrownEyes if the Mods would be confirming who is who and how related if they have the same ISP #.
Not a problem for those of us with more than one family member a member here but just wondering.

Too bad the Mods have to police a bunch of adults

Lighthouse77 · 05-14-2009, 10:36 AM

That's why they should leave things as it is.. when a situation comes up, they will take care of it.. just like they did with Byrdie. Even if Byrdie have multiple accounts doesn't mean he should be banned for it. What he should be banned for is hurting the members..That's where the Mod should focus on.

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by AlleyCat

That's a bunch of crap. I think Byrdie did this all on his own and nothing Naisho or Jillio did had anything to do with this. Just because someone we "trusted" on this forum pulled a huge hoax on us doesn't mean fingers have to get pointed as to why/who/what.

Well - if you recall... byrdie was cheerful and humorous in an agreeable way until naisho/jillio fiasco. Since then - his posts to any other threads were erratic and somewhat bitter. Remember the thread he created - "Dear Alex"? and remember some of the bitter threads that he created which got locked/deleted?

That is what I pieced together so far to understand his ulterior motive behind this cruel prank. His intention was probably to tear AD community apart as he knows handful of ADers are emotionally sensitive. As the result of this prank - some of ADers are leaving AD. His bitterness is most likely targeted toward to Alex and nobody else.

This has been a trying days for us all. Do not let him win. Stay strong.

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ASLGAL

Right. I was just wondering, since this the ISP # was one of the tip off points for CandyBrownEyes if the Mods would be confirming who is who and how related if they have the same ISP #.
Not a problem for those of us with more than one family member a member here but just wondering.

Too bad the Mods have to police a bunch of adults

your question is best left unanswered. I think Candybrowneyes' post is quite sufficient enough for us. AD has been around for several years. Alex has his share of all kinds of internet ****-ups. He knows what he's doing. So do mods.

Shit happens but mods did their damnest to control & contain this situation swiftly enough to prevent it from tearing AD community apart. Fortunately enough - the damage was minimal.... even though many of us are shocked and furious about what just happened.

Like I said - do not let that bastard win. Stay strong and stick together

ASLGAL · 05-14-2009, 10:44 AM

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That is what I pieced together so far to understand his ulterior motive behind this cruel prank. His intention was probably to tear AD community apart as he knows handful of ADers are emotionally sensitive. As the result of this prank - some of ADers are leaving AD.

Really? That is sad.

I thought the whole thing was showing how most community members were sticking it out and sticking together. The ones who have been here a long time and those of us who are still pretty new here seemed to be a united front to me. Perhaps I was wrong to think I observed that.

**sequoias** · 05-14-2009, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

Well - if you recall... byrdie was cheerful and humorous in an agreeable way until naisho/jillio fiasco. Since then - his posts to any other threads were erratic and somewhat bitter. Remember the thread he created - "Dear Alex"? and remember some of the bitter threads that he created which got locked/deleted?

That is what I pieced together so far to understand his ulterior motive behind this cruel prank. His intention was probably to tear AD community apart as he knows handful of ADers are emotionally sensitive. As the result of this prank - some of ADers are leaving AD. His bitterness is most likely targeted toward to Alex and nobody else.

This has been a trying days for us all. Do not let him win. Stay strong.

No one can try to tear AD community apart, we are too close knitted to be ripped up apart. We have done pretty good observing on what's really going on. We are like one big family as well. Many things have happened in the past but we are still here, but of course we lost a few good members.

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 10:46 AM

DONT LET Byrdie win, he is winning by seeing those people leave AD, thats what he wants

diehardbiker · 05-14-2009, 10:49 AM

You MAY be right, he may be one of our former member and was forever banned from here and he may try revenge on Alex for permanent ban him/her.

IF that is what his/her motivation, then we should not let him/her win

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Originally Posted by DeafLissa90

DONT LET Byrdie win, he is winning by seeing those people leave AD, thats what he wants

**Liebling:-)))** · 05-14-2009, 10:53 AM

I really feel bad for you, Jillio

Yes, I remember his posts at 2 years where we were there to defend Bear and her son against his nasty posts and doubt him as a former lawyer....

How to solve courtroom injustice?

What do you agree that Sex-offender parents pose dilemma for schools?

Frisky Feline · 05-14-2009, 11:05 AM

Isthis alldeaf in public that everyone (outside of member AD) can read this thread??

moonflower · 05-14-2009, 11:06 AM

oh yeah i remember liebling jeez GRR at him
he was so bitter toward to Bear since Bear is much dear friend of ours sigh good thing we defense her against Brydie

DreamDeaf · 05-14-2009, 11:06 AM

Yes, Frisky, it is. Only those that are not in public view are those that are member-only areas.

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 11:10 AM

But anyone can view all of the thread on alldeaf.com

when i was banned i was able to come onto the forum and read any thread but not post

DreamDeaf · 05-14-2009, 11:11 AM

There are some forums here that arent viewable by the public - such as pictures.

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by DeafLissa90

But anyone can view all of the thread on alldeaf.com

when i was banned i was able to come onto the forum and read any thread but not post

when you're banned, STAY BAN! j/k

Frisky Feline · 05-14-2009, 11:12 AM

Yea now we all know that he's reading everything what its said here.

Frisky Feline · 05-14-2009, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by DreamDeaf

Yes, Frisky, it is. Only those that are not in public view are those that are member-only areas.

Cool. that's what i remember. I dont know if they know about this AD being in public. thanks dreamdeaf.

**saywhatkid** · 05-14-2009, 11:14 AM

Amazing how effective moderators working together can make a site run smoothly. Just shows how easy it is to create false personnas on the Internet. Well, back to our regularly scheduled postings.

**Liebling:-)))** · 05-14-2009, 11:16 AM

Is it hard to beleive that he had a daughter ?

AllDeaf.com - View Single Post - When expecting a child, would you want it to be deaf?

Frisky Feline · 05-14-2009, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))

Is it hard to beleive that he had a daughter ?

AllDeaf.com - View Single Post - When expecting a child, would you want it to be deaf?

interesting he stated that he didnt like kids. so i assume that he never had a daughter in the first place??

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 11:18 AM

I guess he didnt have a daughter

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Jiro

when you're banned, STAY BAN! j/k

It was like 2 hours before I got unbanned

***naisho*** · 05-14-2009, 11:20 AM

For Jillio's defense, I found something:

How to solve courtroom injustice?
01-01-2008, 09:07 AM PST

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Originally Posted by jillio

First of all, to other ADer's my post above was to assure Bear that we understood that her son was not at fault in any way for the wrongs done to him by the system.

To Byrdie, you quite obviously are NOT a defense attorney, and never have been. Quite obviously, you are not an attorney in any way, shape, or form. You haven't got a clue.

Here is the picture of you that is becoming clear.....you are a young, gay man who may or may not be a manager of beach cottages and does maintenace work on those cottages. Chances are, you are simply a handyman, and not manager at all.

You have never even attended college, much less earned a "law degree" as you put it. Everything you write paints a picture of a very young, very immature, very naive individual. You have extremely low self esteem, and tell lies to try to make yourself appear to be more than what you believe you are.

You need to seek therapy to help you with these issues of low self esteem and pathological lying. There is help for you.

Your lack of empathy is simply projection. You feel that no one has ever shown you empathy, so you project that back on others whenever you get the chance. But it isn't working, Byrdie. While it may be your choice of coping mechanism, in reality, it doesn't make you feel any better, now does it? It causes people to draw away from you, when what you really want is to draw people to you.

The way to make friends is to be yourself, treat others the way you want to be treated, and to be honest. You don't impress anyone by fabricating all of these fantasies about your life. It just doesn't work. Get some help with your issues.

I say this not as a criticism, but out of concern for you. You are showing some very disturbing signs of mental and emotional problems, and your belief that others buy into the picture you are trying to paint is typical of these disturbances.

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**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by DeafLissa90

It was like 2 hours before I got unbanned

oh?? what did you get spanked for?

**Dismal Shadow** · 05-14-2009, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by saywhatkid

Amazing how effective moderators working together can make a site run smoothly. Just shows how easy it is to create false personnas on the Internet. Well, back to our regularly scheduled postings.

Yeah I think they are doing a great job effectively as a team and as our friends. It shows us that they actually care. Nevertheless to say they are the best Mods I have ever see.

And Jillio, I have never doubted you the moment I walked into AD since our debate thread involving a teacher who lose her hearing. I admire you explianing to AD'ers about the situation and I am sorry that you have been victimized by Byrdie and so have we.

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 11:21 AM

sssssshhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeettttttttt ttttttttttttttttt @ naisho's post

**Lissa** · 05-14-2009, 11:22 AM

??

^^^

**Jiro** · 05-14-2009, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by DeafLissa90

??

^^^

lol i was asking what did you get banned for

05-14-2009, 10:36 AM	#364 (permalink)
Lighthouse77 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,167	That's why they should leave things as it is.. when a situation comes up, they will take care of it.. just like they did with Byrdie. Even if Byrdie have multiple accounts doesn't mean he should be banned for it. What he should be banned for is hurting the members..That's where the Mod should focus on. __________________ Good thing about standards is that there are so many of them to choose from.

05-14-2009, 10:46 AM	#369 (permalink)
Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,296 Blog Entries: 1	DONT LET Byrdie win, he is winning by seeing those people leave AD, thats what he wants __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

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Liebling:-))) Sussi 7.7.86 - 18.6.09 Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 31,038	I really feel bad for you, Jillio Yes, I remember his posts at 2 years where we were there to defend Bear and her son against his nasty posts and doubt him as a former lawyer.... How to solve courtroom injustice? What do you agree that Sex-offender parents pose dilemma for schools? __________________

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05-14-2009, 11:10 AM	#375 (permalink)
Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,296 Blog Entries: 1	But anyone can view all of the thread on alldeaf.com when i was banned i was able to come onto the forum and read any thread but not post __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

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05-14-2009, 11:05 AM	#372 (permalink)
Frisky Feline Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 20,239	Isthis alldeaf in public that everyone (outside of member AD) can read this thread??

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moonflower Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washtenaw County, Michigan Posts: 5,762	oh yeah i remember liebling jeez GRR at him he was so bitter toward to Bear since Bear is much dear friend of ours sigh good thing we defense her against Brydie

05-14-2009, 11:11 AM	#376 (permalink)
DreamDeaf Registered User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: In a messy studio Posts: 4,568 Blog Entries: 3	There are some forums here that arent viewable by the public - such as pictures. __________________ Smiles, DreamDeaf www.dreamdeaf.blogspot.com

05-14-2009, 11:12 AM	#378 (permalink)
Frisky Feline Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 20,239	Yea now we all know that he's reading everything what its said here.

05-14-2009, 11:14 AM	#380 (permalink)
saywhatkid Emerging from the sun Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: In space Posts: 7,242 Blog Entries: 2	Amazing how effective moderators working together can make a site run smoothly. Just shows how easy it is to create false personnas on the Internet. Well, back to our regularly scheduled postings. __________________ "Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies." ~ Mother Teresa

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Liebling:-))) Sussi 7.7.86 - 18.6.09 Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Germany Posts: 31,038	Is it hard to beleive that he had a daughter ? AllDeaf.com - View Single Post - When expecting a child, would you want it to be deaf? __________________

05-14-2009, 11:18 AM	#383 (permalink)
Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,296 Blog Entries: 1	I guess he didnt have a daughter __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

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Lissa Premium Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 4,296 Blog Entries: 1	?? ^^^ __________________ lissa, 23, profound bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. http://bioniclissa.blogspot.co.uk/

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