Heather Whitestone or Marlee Matlin?

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Hi guys!:wave: I haven't been to this forum for quite sometime now. That's because I have been blogging for the deaf community in the Philippines. My blog is entitled: Filipino Deaf from the Eyes of a Hearing Person..

My latest blog post is about these two popular icons of the deaf world. Want to know your thoughts. Thanks. :ty:

Here is the link: Heather Whitestone or Marlee Matlin?
 
First of all, I'd like to say I've read your blog and thought some parts were interesting.

However, To side with either Heather or Marlee is like saying we could look at it differently. Yes, Both of them have had a parallel with some similarities.

Both of them have brought success on a different path. It is good for their own term. Naturally, I'd lean with what Marlee is pro activating for. I also do commend Heather for her success.

In my opinion, It would not be fair to say one side looks down at Heather and another side looks down at Marlee. I think in retro to this, Both of them have paved the path for a lot of other deaf people whether they are oral or signers.
 
Matlin use sign language at most of time as entertainment. But it's not really deaf culture, at least, she tried.

Whitestone... just beautiful but support like deaf-oral.
 
Personally, I think Marlee Matlin is great. :D Plus, I loved her on The L Word! :naughty: But to be honest, I don't really know much about Heather Whitestone, so I would be totally biased.
 
JoManila...well, i rather to have Marlee over Heather in any day. simple enough.


i hailed of Kalibo, Aklan, Philippines :]

and.. im californian-
 
As a former oralist, I used to identify with Heather but after so much soul searching and finding my true identity, I feel more connected with Marlee than Heather. Like me, Marlee uses her oral skills sometimes but seems more comfortable with using ASL.

With Heather, I am happy for her but she is not someone I look up to anymore.
 
i wonder what is she is doing at this time?

i know that MM is still performing in various of tv shows.
 
I think both of them have issues that different deaf people can relate to. I can't say that one is better than the other. They are each different.

I do notice that there's something I don't like about Heather, but I am thinking that it might be related to her personality. It might not be related to her deafness at all.

I did read her mom's book and Heather's. I can relate on many experiences. She had her difficulties, too. I didn't find anything to be against her or offensive, but it didn't have any magical solution that would suddenly make your life easier or see her as a role model.

I think Heather's human, and I don't think that she's perfect, but some people tried to push me to watch her pageant as a role model because people thought that she had it perfect. It pi$$ed me off because I felt like they were ignoring the fact that it was difficult whether Heather's in the picture or not. I knew behind all of the pageant success that Heather must have had her share of difficulties in life as a deaf person, and it was true when I read her book. I was like "ha, bitches. Ye can't fool me!" She went through it to pay her education as well.

It was as if people thought that her experience would automatically make me more confident. Dude, just because she made it to the pageant doesn't mean that all of my difficulties would diassapear because of Heather winning a pageant.

I am not against Marlee at all. I think she's humble when it comes to deafness, but I wonder where she stands on oralism because she does talk sometimes. So I am not sure how much she speaks or supports it or what. What I seem to get is that she probably just respects it, and stays with what she's comfortable instead of pushing people to be on the total deaf side. What I like is that she's not so much on Deaf Pride, so it makes it easier to relate to her in some ways.

They both have their differences as deaf people. I don't think that either one represent the deaf community better. Some people will like one person better than the other depending on their personality.
 
NorCal20 said:
i wonder what is she is doing at this time?

i know that MM is still performing in various of tv shows.
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The last time I saw Heather's website that she was going to be a Beauty Consultant, and run the business with her husband. All I heard was that she got her second CI after she lost the remaining hearing.

I think it'd be SO cool if Marlee Matlin would have her own TV Show. A family TV show. That she'd be the main character. Wouldn't that be so cool?
 
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The last time I saw in her website that she was going to be a Beauty Consultant, and run the business with her husband. All I heard was that she got her second CI after she lost the remaining hearing.

I think it'd be SO cool if Marlee Matlin would have her own TV Show. A family TV show. That she'd be the main character. Wouldn't that be so cool?
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"If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are" (Marlee Matlin)

Marlee Matlin Quotes

Where did you hear about CI and Matlin? I don't think she has one.
 
Bottesini said:
"If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are" (Marlee Matlin)

Marlee Matlin Quotes

Where did you hear about CI and Matlin? I don't think she has one.
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MM has no CIs.
 
MM has no CIs.
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"If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are" (Marlee Matlin)
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Where did you hear about CI and Matlin? I don't think she has one.
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I was referring to Heather Whitestone :roll:.
 
I'm a fan of Marlee, especially her work in a little known movie called "What the Bleep: Down the Wormhole".
 
Heather or Marlee? Hell, Id take MM over Heather cause MM has the ultimate award a deafie can achieve: The Oscar. Even though I cant stand MM's further evolution, her role in Children of a Lesser God totally takes the cake. The AG Bell Society can have Heather for all I care...I got no use for their outdated oralist ideals starting way back to Milan 1880.
 
Yes I learn about them and love to watch Marlee Matlin's movies.


I do not like to compare them but respect what they are because they are different people and have their own way.
 
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Why do Deaf people look down on Deaf celebrities that don't use exclusively ASL? Why is this such a bad thing?
 
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