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And, please, don't tell me I should sleep with my hearing aids on instead of having a hearing dog.
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![]() apparently you have a phobia of deaf people because you seem to be attacking the people here who are deaf and the organizations that help us.
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REST IN PEACE MY SWEET BROTHER, STACY, MAY 17TH 1968 TO SEPTEMBER 20TH 1996REST IN PEACE MY MOTHER & BEST FRIEND JUNE, SEPTEMBER 25TH 1940 TO MARCH 20TH 2008 REST IN PEACE MY CRAZY FUN DADDY, JOE, JULY 20TH 1939 TO JUNE 30TH 2008I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH. MAYBE TIME WILL HELP HEAL BUT I KNOW MY FRIENDS HAVE BEEN THE TRUE ANSWER TO MY CALL TO GOD FOR HELP.
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You guys can argue with me anytime you want. But one thing is ADA can't protect your asses is a lot of million dollars companies and governments prefer to hire the best quality and the skills of the candidates needed to support them.
Want a crazy stories? Here are examples: Here's what the court decided: An airline carrier could refuse to hire two deaf pilots, even though their hear could be corrected to perfect. Since their condition could be fixed, the court said the law didn't protect them. Since the law didn't protect them, the airline company said: No job. A delivery company fired a deaf mechanic who had high blood pressure. With medication, the blood pressure could be controlled. Since the medical condition was treatable, the court said the law didn't protect the man. Since the man had the condition, the delivery company said: No job. So what does this mean for deaf people? We're afraid that this means that, if you live in the U.S., you are trouble. Quote:
But if you take the initiative to overcome your problems - if you work to become a better employee then you are in trouble. You might have noticed that all the best-paying jobs these days require you to be literate. So, rather than wallow in self-pity, maybe you enrolled in a class in your community, and worked your tail off, and now you can do it. By all your hard work, you have actually developed the skills and ability to do everything your job requires. Sure, you need the help of a spell-checker – but that's standard equipment on all computers these days. What happens, according to the Supreme Court? Now, your boss can fire you, or refuse to promote you, just because you happen to be 'disability' even if you are doing your job well. So what can you do? If the Supreme Court's interpretation stands, then there is only one safe course: go back into the closet. Don't tell your boss that you are disability. Lie about it. And count yourself lucky for having an invisible disability. Because, according to the U.S. Supreme Court, the law won't protect you any more. I am sorry. I wanted pek1 to be able to achieve more, and to take pride in his abilities, to recognize his talents as gifts, and to know that with strength and determination, he can overcome his limitations. Companies wanted to know that it is worth their while to invest in adaptive technology, such as a computer dictation system, or extend other accommodations to you, to have the benefit of your keen mind on the job. But the Supreme Court has spoken. Quote:
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No, there is nothing wrong with having a hearing dog.
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I hear and understand what you're saying, am glad I'm not the only one that has been feeling this way. Sure, women have to work twice as hard as men to even be considered for equal pay, which is why I support Hillary Clinton for president. However, on the other hand, there's us. Please allow me to elaborate and please don't shoot me down for what I'm about to say. No one ever asked me if I wanted hearing aids or to be deaf. Society years ago considered us all as deaf and dumb or the medical and psychological "professionals" diagnosed us as being mentally retarded. Maybe even instituted us in state hospitals, not residential schools for the deaf. So, now that we have all these "Rights," we have to work twice as hard as women do in order to get the same pay as them or even get promoted. Which is why, at my age, I've nearly made it a career to be in school, pursuing first the ministry, then my interests, now am pursuing my undergraduate in order to go to law school. I see that anyone who is deaf and is in law, is not doing a thing to help other deaf people. That, my dear alldeaf friends, is what I want to change. That is why I correct spelling and grammar of sara1981 and make notes to all of you that we have to play the "hearies" game. Because, when we get up to speed, we're going to be clubbing their kneecaps and getting what we all want, collectively, together. If you want to appear as "deaf and dumb," please do so, but don't do it here or in public. We deaf people want what is rightfully ours, not just a deaf president of a university, but deaf people in prominent places of leadership with credentials that speak for themselves. We don't want to hinder society, because we don't get pity, just a kick and told to stay out of the way. As an audiologist here at Minnesota State University Moorhead told me one time, "Pete, you're gonna have to learn how to be your own advocate." Truly so. DefMATRIXense, I believe this is what you meant, is it so?
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I understand what is being said from here guys. It irritates me when I see a hearing person write a note and many of the words are misused and/or misspelled. To me, it makes me feel like that person didnt quite get the basics down, and therefore probably isnt equipped to go forth in the world and be expected to conquer it, let alone get a decent paying job.
I know several of these kinds of people, while personality wise and street smarts, they are as every bit capable as the next person. But on paper it comes across that they may possibly be lacking in areas. This can and will burn you for job applications and interivews (if a written test is a part of the hiring proces). It also irritates me when I see people who come up with the most off the wall stuff. Yeah, they may have 'book smarts', but they lack basic social skills which too can and will keep you from a decent paying job when being interviewed. Are we being lesser educated than our hearing peers? Maybe so, but it's still no exscuse to keep from learning more and getting on par with them. Just because I can't hear wasn't and still isnt a legitimate reason for me to hold myself back. Just because you can't hear doesnt mean you have to take a kick in the teeth on a daily basis. Instead of walking away from the fight and giving up, we should be further building ourselves up - preparing ourselves to be better equipped to face the next battle, whether it be dispelling common myths of deaf people, to landing a management position at the local grocery store, to even possibly teaching at universities and leading communities. Just because I couldnt hear didnt stop me from advocating for better conditions at our local pound, just because I couldnt hear didnt stop me from being in the school play at a mainstream school (and no I didnt even play a deaf character, I played a hearing part), it didnt stop me from doing well enough in school to be a part of the National Honor Society. The list goes on and on. The sum of this is that we shouldnt settle for what the hearing world thinks is 'best' for us. We have to prove to them that we deserve better, lets prove our worth to them, and in the future we'll working ALONGSIDE them instead of FOR them. Oprah once said that when she was a little girl her grandmother told her she hoped she would find some nice white people to work for, well today Oprah has some nice white people working for her! Lets keep that in mind and one day we'll make that happen for each and everyone of us. |
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If Pete translated you right then I owe you an apology. The way you said things at first made me feel I was being attacked as a deaf person but it was actually that you were as pissed off about the situation as all the rest of us were and for taking it wrong I am truly hoping you'll accept my apologies.
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REST IN PEACE MY SWEET BROTHER, STACY, MAY 17TH 1968 TO SEPTEMBER 20TH 1996REST IN PEACE MY MOTHER & BEST FRIEND JUNE, SEPTEMBER 25TH 1940 TO MARCH 20TH 2008 REST IN PEACE MY CRAZY FUN DADDY, JOE, JULY 20TH 1939 TO JUNE 30TH 2008I MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH. MAYBE TIME WILL HELP HEAL BUT I KNOW MY FRIENDS HAVE BEEN THE TRUE ANSWER TO MY CALL TO GOD FOR HELP.
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I'm sorry I just now ran across this thread. I would have responded soon if I had noticed it. I can't add a thinf to Reba's advice on this, except to say, document, document, document. It is illegal for a company to ask you about disability until they offer you a position. If they then refuse that position, rather than making accommodations, they have blatantly violated the ADA, and a complaint needs to be filed with the DOJ. I would contact legal services immediately and speak with a civil rights attorney. |
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Kudos to you for wanting to have a hearing dog with you. Ignore anyone who says otherwise.
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How is that harsh or too blunt or too negative? The woman just admitted she understood what Pek was saying about violating the ADA act. And any person in a hiring position knows that's a no-no. Pek was right to say what he said, and I've said worse to others when I've been in similiar situations. Does that make me too harsh or blunt or negative? I don't give a damn !!
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I heard from the personnel director today and she said she is in contact with the county regarding this. She'll be on vacation until the 11th or 15th and will know more then.Thanks so much for your encouragement, AlleyCat, I appreciate it! You, too, jillio!
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