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My kids are proud of who they are. I always make sure that they know how proud my husband and I are of. They know who they are, first teenagers, then deaf teenagers, and then deaf oral teenagers |
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Wow u had heard horror stories from them. I am older than u I guess if u have teenagers. I never went school there except I went there to have my hearing test which it was free. They told my parents that I was deaf and mentally retarded. Of coursse I was not mentally retarded, need time to heal from major illness. U have to understand something, when John Tracy told my parents what were best for me back then that oral was must, sign language was bad. So they believed them and send me to oral program for few years. During two years time with this oral teacher, she abused me and I could not tell my parents about her because I could not communicate with my parents, only silence. I had problem with attention which I could not sit still and watch her lips for long time so I looked away from her then she came to me and shook my head and hurt me. Finally my parents fought school and changed it to TC which it was best thing ever happen to me. I learned right away after TC. Years later I met this oral teacher again , my fear was so bad and I shut myself down and not say one voice to her at all. U know what she told me after I refused to use my voice with her " What a shame on you for not being taling" That was when I decided I would never be a teacher for the deaf and blind. It was my first goal to be a school teacher now after her words to me. I would never do that to any deaf child ever so I decided to leave college and never return. I read you are a teacher and hope u are very good with those children. This is way off subject from CART to this. Oops. It was good reading. Good luck with your kids.
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Since I have seen successful oral and signing kids, it really doesn't matter to me, what road a family takes as long as it is an inform decision. The reason I want my children to be oral is so that they more opportunites. I knew they can learn everything through but I also knew if they had all the knowledge and were oral, they would have better opportunities. I have met some bad teachers and some teachers that need to retire. I think I am different I love working with young children and their families. It is just a fun age. You need to go back to school and show that teacher that you can do it and ask CART |
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That teacher who said that to u should be condemned! After a year at Gallaudet, I went back to AZ to visit my family and I contacted my old deaf ed teacher for lunch. We went out for lunch and I was telling her about how much I love Gallaudet and how wonderful it was that everyone signs and I dont miss out on anything. U know what she said? She said that she can tell that signing is making my speech skills deteriorate...right there, I felt sick to my stomach. Instead of being happy for me that I finally found happiness in my life after a lifetime of being frustrated, angry, jealous, and miserable of not being able to hear, she has to criticize my speech skills. Since then, I havent and I refuse to contact her. I thought she was cool but that was a big turn off for me. Been 6 years..she tried contacting me later on but I was going thru an anger stage about being denying sign language all my life. Boy, I had a blowout with my mom during that anger stage. It wasnt easy going thru that realizing how much I missed out all my life when it didnt have to be that way. I am sorry Jazzy that u had a horrible experience there and I am sorry that what that teacher said turned u off about becoming a teacher for deaf ed.
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Unfortunatly, I don't think you will be able to get CART, since your daughter is doing so well even without it. Ever hear of the Rowley case? That was a case where the student was doing really well However, her parents thought she could do much better with a 'terp. They sued the school district, but lost the case. The judge in the case said that the law did not streach to provide complete and total equality for dhh kids. Jackie, the attitude is that mainstreaming is better then self contained classes or special schools. BUT most dhh kids ARE mainstreamed. Wouldn't acheivement levels have risen? But I have to say that I think mainstreaming is overrated, especially since the gross majority of teachers, including sped teachers have NO CLUE whatsoever about teaching kids like us. We are lumped into the "Ummmm who's President Bush? type of dumbasses who are LEGION in sped! ![]() And Jackie, I do know that a lot of parents chose oral so that their kids won't have to depend on a 'terp or depend on writing notes. That's a noble goal........but how many oral kids get signed off of speech therapy b/c they absolutly positively don't need it any more? How many oral kids have mastered speech on the level of a native hearing person? Did you know its fairly common for oral kids to be able to articualte, but still make syntax errors like "How many spiders have legs?" for "how many legs do spiders have?" Is their vocabulary and verbal IQ at the same level of a hearing person? Oral kids don't nessarily have higher acheivement levels then Sign kids.........it just seems that way b/c a lot of oral families tend to be VERY VERY hyperinvolved. (the type who basicly do therapy 24/7) I think it rocks that you're so openminded. But I do think that more pro oralists need to realize that they should equipt kids with a full toolbox, rather then just exclusively speech. Isn't it better to have a FULL toolbox, where the kids can CHOOSE (without bias) which tools they want to use? Most oralists tend to be very audist. Some of them are openminded........."equipt the kid with choices..let the kid chose." I actually know of a few kids who were raised under a full toolbox philosophy and *gasp* CHOSE sign! But why according to oralist philosophy should Sign be a last resort sort of thing? The gross majority of dhh kids are strongly visual learners.........Why is it that oralists are so obessed with concentrating on ameiorating speech, speech and even more speech? Maybe more dhh kids could really do great things if they didn't have to expend so much energy on speech! |
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Unfortunatly, I don't think you will be able to get CART, since your daughter is doing so well even without it. Ever hear of the Rowley case? That was a case where the student was doing really well However, her parents thought she could do much better with a 'terp. They sued the school district, but lost the case. The judge in the case said that the law did not streach to provide complete and total equality for dhh kids. Jackie, the attitude is that mainstreaming is better then self contained classes or special schools. BUT most dhh kids ARE mainstreamed. Wouldn't acheivement levels have risen? But I have to say that I think mainstreaming is overrated, especially since the gross majority of teachers, including sped teachers have NO CLUE whatsoever about teaching kids like us. We are lumped into the "Ummmm who's President Bush? type of dumbasses who are LEGION in sped! ![]() And Jackie, I do know that a lot of parents chose oral so that their kids won't have to depend on a 'terp or depend on writing notes. That's a noble goal........but how many oral kids get signed off of speech therapy b/c they absolutly positively don't need it any more? How many oral kids have mastered speech on the level of a native hearing person? Did you know its fairly common for oral kids to be able to articualte, but still make syntax errors like "How many spiders have legs?" for "how many legs do spiders have?" Is their vocabulary and verbal IQ at the same level of a hearing person? Oral kids don't nessarily have higher acheivement levels then Sign kids.........it just seems that way b/c a lot of oral families tend to be VERY VERY hyperinvolved. (the type who basicly do therapy 24/7) I think it rocks that you're so openminded. But I do think that more pro oralists need to realize that they should equipt kids with a full toolbox, rather then just exclusively speech. Isn't it better to have a FULL toolbox, where the kids can CHOOSE (without bias) which tools they want to use? Most oralists tend to be very audist. Some of them are openminded........."equipt the kid with choices..let the kid chose." I actually know of a few kids who were raised under a full toolbox philosophy and *gasp* CHOSE sign! But why according to oralist philosophy should Sign be a last resort sort of thing? The gross majority of dhh kids are strongly visual learners.........Why is it that oralists are so obessed with concentrating on ameiorating speech, speech and even more speech? Maybe more dhh kids could really do great things if they didn't have to expend so much energy on speech! |
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You say that your daughter can drop her voice at any time with your support? And how would she do that and still be able to communicate with her family? You have placed her in a position of not being able to communicate with you except on your terms--oral. That, in effect, leaves her with no choice at all. |
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Obviously, believing in the oral philosophy is very natural for you, because it, as well, is about taking away the deaf individual's autonomy. |
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And yes, I would admire her just as much, as what I admire is not her ability to speak or her abiltiy to sign, but her teaching philosophy and her concern for deaf children. She is a wonderful caring person, an excellennt teacher, and a free thinking, open minded individual. Her communication method has nothing to do with that. Her ability to speak, and her ability to sign, are of no consequence tothe person she is and the success she has achieved. You should stop equating communication choice with value of the person. |
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I guess it's like oral method is a risky gamble. I have not heard from her, about what happened to kids who failed oral at that program you used. Where are they? What happened to them? Are they behind on language because of those missed years?
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The fact that your son is fully mainstreamed without support services, and that you also claim that he is profoundly deaf scares the hell out of me! And you are an educator????? |
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Wasn't flaunting at all, my dear, merely pointing out that even those of us who shouldn't, make mistakes in spelling and grammar. Last edited by Roadrunner; 08-29-2007 at 10:41 PM. |
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Good, because there is nothing to flaunt. Having a degree is by no means any indicator of intelligence and certainly, as you prove, does not indicate an open mind or tolerence of differing viewpoints.
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She is not open minded about allowing some deaf kids falling thru the cracks academically and socio-emotionally just because they were unable to pick up on oral language or were left out a lot/missing out a lot in the education system. That's a good reason to be closed minded cuz it is about them not about u or us.
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Yes, shel. More than being closed minded, because that involves refusing to even investigate other alternatives, I have investigated the other alternatives, seen the consequences first hand in more than one or two children, and have based my view on the most convincing evidence. Beign convinced that one method is superior to the others educationally is not closed minded, it is being open minded enough to to what works based on empirical eveidence. You approach it the same way.
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