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And I really do not understand the statement regarding the unreasonable expectation of a parent learning sign. That is what irritates me the most. It is not unreasonable to expect a parent to do whatever is necessary to assist their child with communication. It is not unreasonable to ask that parents behave as the adults, and facillitate communication with their own child, rather than asking the child to behave as the parent and make the effort to adapt to the parent. Claims like this are no more than a sales technique used to appeal to the hearing parent with no concern for the effect it has on the child. It is destructive to attempt to convince a parent that an unproven system will benefit their child linguistically in the same way that a full language approach with ASL, which has been proven empirically, will. The complete lack of concern in statements such as this for both the child and the parent infuriating. Asking a parent with a deaf child to learn ASL is far more reasonable than the claims being made by CS supporters. I learned ASL for my deaf son, and did not consider it to be unreasonable in the least. It was what I was supposed to do as a parent with a deaf child: learn to communicate with my child in the mode that best fulfilled his needs. Get a grip, CS supporters! The issue is not what is easier for the hearing parent! The issue is what is best suited to the deaf child, and what will allow them to receive an education and live a successful and independent life. The issue is what allows the deaf child to ask questions and understand the world around them. The issue is what allows the deaf child to communicate both needs and wants, and abstract ideas that lead to the ability to think critically. That is the first priority, not how little effort is required by the parent. This "quick fix" mentality is harmful to deaf children. |
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