nat84

I wonder have you experienced of meet two-faced people at Gallaudet, it is worse I had seen before. Same as my PKZ sisters who try to show their good behavior or innocent but inform you that's not true. I am tired of some of PKZ sisters always talk bad things about someone while they're in room. And they refuse show their confess as not innocent person before. I would never do that because I am honestly person and good-hearted, I always tell the truth to my friends or respect anyone. Not only my PKZ sisters, other ones as organizations. I remember one of my sisters who is in deaf family and graduated from deaf school, she got honor student, try to show people belived her as friendly person. But she never respect me and not really nice to me when in high school. Later, I find out she is in, but I have no idea how comes she belong to Gallaudet, she got a lot of friends, ingored me sometime but she is older than me. Once as I learned, one of my classmate told me I wasn't fault, I am good person to help students in high school and college, but few of them kept jealous of me being as good-hearted, want me being snob. One guy from KG fraternity who become honor at deaf school, he is befriend with one guy who belong to KG is from deaf family, snob and never talked to me. Some people dislike him because he is mean and rude at us while his playing football in high school but happening he received speaker address at gallaudet ceremony two years ago. Now, I noticed few of my sisters who came from school and got honor, they are friendly and good hearted, told me they are being disciplined by parents unlike mine, only on my own all the time, not from parents, know who I am. But I tried to help them learn something like be friend with GDI guys or hang out, make me feel concerned because they grew up with skulls and owls family members who never had like that.

I was disappointed that why did some people or PKZ/KG members always being two faced like nice then mean in the way? I had experienced with this, I am tired of this way.

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Kalista

Well, unfournately real world colleagues, friends, etc.. always two faces. I live with it. I do not take their personally.

Federal Goverment, Unprofit Organization and private industries employees are two faces. I only do focus on my work task and projects then go home. I enjoy my life to focus on my family and pets.

Important, do not take their personally. It will link you into emotionally beign worry and upset about other people talk about you behind your back. So what ! Why do you worry about other people? You should be proud of yourself for who you are.

Stay in strong and do your rountine daily.

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Grummer

no one is good hearted, dont ever believe any one say that for a minute especially if you do not know the person. At this instance you should be triggered by warning bells (lights) inside your head, to know its not to be trusted, taken to gospel.

Federal Goverment, Unprofit Organization and private industries employees are two faces. I only do focus on my work task and projects then go home. I enjoy my life to focus on my family and pets. > i second that too Kalista, you know ya to know and know when its time to be yourself , AT HOME - away from the sleazy ratrace crowd

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Royale

Hi nat84

I understand how and what you have gone thru this situation at Gally. I went thru this situation like yours when I attended Gally. Know what I did? I just managed to stay civil and cool to two-faced people although I was well aware of the fact that they were two faced people to me. I just played like a naive guy to them as I really nodded them off.

I know some of my ASP brothers were two faced to me but I had to embrace and accept them as my ASP brothers. I hope you would do the same thing to your PKZ sisters.

Like Kalista said, it is common for people to act two-faced in real world so don't take them personally. I am sure it has happened at all colleges, schools and universities.

GarnetTigerMom

Sadly I would have to say there are many two-faced people out there in the real world such as colleges, work, friends, family or hospitals. Two faced people are any where. But don't take them too personally if they acted two face to you. The way I see it, that when a two face person act like trouble for lying, or playing games. I know lot of two faced people can act like " hypocrite" sometimes. But they are the one with issues with themselves not us.

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authentic

nat84, why do you always complain about gallaudet? If you are not happy with Gallaudet, why stay?

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Byrdie714

Good question as I noticed that too and always with a topic of a " "

jillio

Exactly. Wasting energy complaining that should be used to change the situation. You can either use your energy to whine about a problem, or you can use your energy to find a solution.

VamPyroX

It happens when one is trying to be like others... especially in fraternities and sororities.

Some fraternities and sororities forget the true purpose of their groups and go astray with doing something that contradicts their group's own values.

I have friends who are in fraternities, but they still follow the true standards of their fraternities. I know some others who join fraternities, but do something else because they're more concerned with being liked by others and being "cool".

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jillio

In that case, the person has some personal issues they need to work on. Coolness comes from inside the person, not from being a member of any particular group.

But I agree, Vampy. I've seen many people looking in the wrong place and trying to change what is inside by finding something on the outside. It like wearing a mask.