Heteroflexible: Girls kissing girls is the latest trend

lumbingmi · 08-25-2008, 04:42 PM

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By KATHERINE KERSTEN
August 25, 2008

Imagine that you hear that your 18-year-old daughter was kissing another girl at a party last weekend. What races through your mind? "O my gosh, she's exploring same-sex attractions. She must be a lesbian."

Hold up, Mom and Dad. You're showing your age. Chances are, your daughter's not fixed on the pretty young blonde she's locking lips with. There may be something entirely different and unexpected going on.

"Girls making out with each other to turn on guys is the latest craze at high school and college parties," according to the online magazine Salon.com.

Still don't believe it? Listen to this summer's monster hit song, "I Kissed a Girl" by Katy Perry. It's an international phenomenon -- topping the charts all summer in America, Canada, Australia and Great Britain. A few weeks ago, Perry was a headliner at the Warped music festival at Canterbury Park in Shakopee, belting out the song's provocative lyrics:

I kissed a girl and I liked it,

The taste of her cherry chapstick,

I kissed a girl just to try it,

I hope my boyfriend don't mind it.

It felt so wrong, it felt so right.

Perry cagily maintains that her song is about drunken curiosity regarding same-sex attractions. But her music video, which features gyrating women in lingerie, is clearly designed to give the male libido a jolt.

We baby boomers like to think we invented and defined the sexual revolution. But our offspring are tossing out the categories we took for granted, including the view that "gay or straight" is preprogrammed.

Young women whom Salon.com interviewed about the girl-on-girl trend said they had initially kissed other females to get a free beer at parties or on a dare from guys. But they soon saw it as a way to signal to males that they are "sexually open and adventurous."

"It was like, look, I'm the center of attention!" recalled one 16-year-old.

Katherine Kersten: Heteroflexible: Girls kissing girls is the latest trend

Jiro · 08-25-2008, 04:51 PM

that's all I can say.

lumbingmi · 08-25-2008, 05:00 PM

What s wrong with watching guy kissing other guy?

shel90 · 08-25-2008, 06:31 PM

I kissed a girl and I liked it!!!

Maria · 08-25-2008, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

I kissed a girl and I liked it!!!

Seriously ?

lumbingmi · 08-25-2008, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

I kissed a girl and I liked it!!!

Byrdie714 · 08-25-2008, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

What s wrong with watching guy kissing other guy?

Wanna kiss?

lumbingmi · 08-25-2008, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

Wanna kiss?

Me no queer. Barf.

shel90 · 08-25-2008, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Maria

Seriously ?

Yea, a few times while I was a Gally student. Was curious...no biggie.

Bosedes906 · 08-25-2008, 10:03 PM

lol hmm i never thought of it that way. If I saw my gf kissing another girl, I would most likely throw a fit just like if she was kissing another guy

PuyoPiyo · 08-26-2008, 11:18 AM

It doesn't bother me as long as they are single or if their partner doesn't mind.

I've seen some straight boys and girls (including homosexuals) kissing each other just for fun before, nothing wrong with it

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Bosedes906

lol hmm i never thought of it that way. If I saw my gf kissing another girl, I would most likely throw a fit just like if she was kissing another guy

huh..... weird. for me - i'd go

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by shel90

I kissed a girl and I liked it!!!

do it again! this time - i'll watch!

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by PuyoPiyo

It doesn't bother me as long as they are single or if their partner doesn't mind.

I've seen some straight boys and girls (including homosexuals) kissing each other just for fun before, nothing wrong with it

straight girls kissing each other... cool but straight boys kissing each other? I................... don't know about that

PuyoPiyo · 08-26-2008, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by jiro123

straight girls kissing each other... cool but straight boys kissing each other? I................... don't know about that

Is it okay for us to kiss each other? Or you just don't like it yourself?

jillio · 08-26-2008, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by jiro123

straight girls kissing each other... cool but straight boys kissing each other? I................... don't know about that

Sounds like a severe case of homophobia to me.

Probably the reason for separating the act by gender.

Liza · 08-26-2008, 11:57 AM

I guess this is what being sexually fluid is all about. Nothing wrong with that either. I've seen straight deaf boys kissing each other, and they were drunk.

Haha, shel -- been there. Would you do it again?

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Liza

I guess this is what being sexually fluid is all about. Nothing wrong with that either. I've seen straight deaf boys kissing each other, and they were drunk.

Haha, shel -- been there. Would you do it again?

of course!!!! the beer eyes! I'm sure that drunk boy saw other boy as a hot girl

PuyoPiyo · 08-26-2008, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by jiro123

of course!!!! the beer eyes! I'm sure that drunk boy saw other boy as a hot girl

I had a straight friend who told me his little story, he was very drunk and he had sex with other straight guy. He told me that he thought it was female, but really it's just other guy that was curious about the sex with the same gender.

He told me... he like it!

PowerON · 08-26-2008, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by shel90

I kissed a girl and I liked it!!!

I grab breast. I like it!!!

Byrdie714 · 08-26-2008, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

Me no queer. Barf.

Then why mention this?

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Originally Posted by lumbingmi

What s wrong with watching guy kissing other guy?

jillio · 08-26-2008, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Byrdie714

Then why mention this?

Good question! Methinks there are those that doth protest too much!

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by PuyoPiyo

I had a straight friend who told me his little story, he was very drunk and he had sex with other straight guy. He told me that he thought it was female, but really it's just other guy that was curious about the sex with the same gender.

He told me... he like it!

LOL! good for him, I guess. My friend is same but not drunk. He's straight but wanted to explore out of curiosity and now he likes it. He's happily living with a boyfriend. I met them. Good couple but I personally think that boyfriend is just tad little too young.

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by PowerON

I grab breast. I like it!!!

and I grab ass too. I like it many times!

jillio · 08-26-2008, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by jiro123

LOL! good for him, I guess. My friend is same but not drunk. He's straight but wanted to explore out of curiosity and now he likes it. He's happily living with a boyfriend. I met them. Good couple but I personally think that boyfriend is just tad little too young.

Uh, I don't think he's straight.

Jiro · 08-26-2008, 01:25 PM

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Uh, I don't think he's straight.

yup. you're correct. he's now "BI"

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Liza Cranial protocologist Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: St Augustine, FL Posts: 4,147 Blog Entries: 2	I guess this is what being sexually fluid is all about. Nothing wrong with that either. I've seen straight deaf boys kissing each other, and they were drunk. Haha, shel -- been there. Would you do it again?