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Yeah, kids don't have autism, and kids don't have ADD or ADHD.....despite the neurological evidence of both disorders. We just need to spend more time with them, and the disorder will go away. It is all the result of innatentive parents. Not only do attitudes like this do a disservice tothe diagnosed individual, but they are horribly insulting tothe parent of a child who has been diagnosed with a disorder. In effect, both Savage and this article are blaming the parents for the child's disorder. How insensitive is that? How productive is that? |
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I speak out of my experience because I myself have a ADD son. He is not a brat but ADD. We work together with therapies to help him and spend our time on him when he was a little boy. Now he is a teenager and his ADD behavior didnīt show for long time now. people really have no idea what they are saying...
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The stigma attached to being disabled has NOTHING to do with over-diagnosis of disabling conditions and everything to do with perspectives much like yours: that being 'disabled' (I love how you quote it) is somehow lesser than being able bodied. I am 'disabled' and damn proud of it. I have never seen the inside of a special classroom- unless ivy league qualifies under your definition of special. I have never taken a single medication related to my autism, or indeed my associated 'bad behaviors' that result from it. I have never, despite also being deafblind, taken a cent worth of disability from the government. Most disabled people I know also have not. It's not being disabled that's the problem- it's what people think being disabled has to mean.
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But Neither Deafblindness or Asperger syndrome is my biggest problem. I've also suffered from Mental health issues that means that employment is very difficult for me, or anyone else with mental health issues, to come by. So it's not the physical disability that makes people need to go on benifits. It's an attitude that the parent is obviously not 'strict enough' which is what my parents got throughout my childhood which pushed them over the top a little and caused me to have more mental health issues then would have otherwise been the case. The only thing we would agree on is I don't think all these drugs are really good for Autistic children wether they are 'real' or not. I was put on a few myself to curb undesirable behavior when I was younger and they don't really help matters much so I don't recomend them at all. |
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I, and many other professionals would agree with you. Punishing a child with autism for behaviors related to the disorder only serve to increase the behaviors and make them more severe. It simply reinforces their inability to connect with others and their view of the world as a confusing, often frightening place. |
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To say that those with hearing mild losses can't be compared to those with profound losses would be fallcious in much the same way asperger's is compared with classic autisim. Both those with Aspergers and those with the more classical austisim are autistic; it's only a matter of degree from what I understand. Correct me if I'm wrong.
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This year I haven't lost my ATM card once. However, I doubt that my card will make it to the expiration date. I tend to lose such cards before before they expire. One year I lost my ATM card 13 times a year; I remember nearly losing my temper when the banker wanted to know how I could lose it so often.
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Like your comparison, it is not degree. To elaborate on your comparison, a mild loss to an individual who attempts to function in a completely hearing oriented world has more functional limitation than the profoundly deaf since birth individual who uses accommodation to compensate for functional loss of hearing capacity. And because an individual with Asperger's shares the same cognitive, perceptive, and communication differences with someone with severe Autism, they indeed have more in common than either one of them have with a non-Autistic individual on those levels. |
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That is the reason that I spend so much time trying to gain insight into the deaf perspective. I cannot effectively advocate and assist my clients unless I understand what it is like for them to live as a deaf individual. To understand that, I have to ask them to explain it to me from the inside out, and then put my own experience as a hearing person aside in order to empatize and give credibility to their experience. As a counselor, that is the very foundation of my work, and it has become the foundation of the way I live my life. I make every attempt to meet people where they are in life, not from where I am in life. Only then can I address issues with them effectively. The whole therapuetic realtionship is based on my ability to gain an emapthic understanding of the individual with whom I am working. Without that, no technique or theory will be successful in helping that individual to make the personal changes or gain the skills necessary to lead a more fulfilling life. That approach works not only with the therapuetic realtionship, but with all relationships in all walks of life. People need to be heard and validated. It is a universal desire in all people. |
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I flap my hands. One can easily say that most people find it distressing to see me sitting in a corner, rocking, flapping my hands, or otherwise stimming and not paying attention to them. Does it distress them? Maybe. Does it distress me? No. It feels good and calms me down, which is why I do it! If I have something planned and it goes wrong, I get extremely upset. I can't always voice how or why I'm upset, so I scream and sometimes hit myself. That is how I cope with a reality that is scary and upsetting- and how I voice to others that I'm not comfortable. Distressing to others? Probably. Distressing to me? Yes, the situation is, but not how I express my frustration with it.
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Your perspective should be taken into consideration by the general public, educators and the medical community. I will definitely take it into consideration!
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Deafskeptic............I understand what you're trying to say. I know that autisim occurs on a spectrum from Einstein Syndrome to "let's see if we can't get Jeffy toilet trained in time for his fifteenth birthday" However, there IS a difference between Asperger's and HFA. Asperger's kids have relatively good language skills, while HFA aren't great at language. Asperger's is more like the mild "LD" version of autism, whereas HFA is more like kids who might be slow learner types.(ie not quite MR, but not quite normal IQ) Classic autism is more like classic mental retardation. Aleser, I know what you're trying to say..........however, I have witnessed the difference between HFA and more classical autism. I'm not one of those out of touch professionals...........and trust me.....it can be quite devastating. How do you know that people with more severe forms of autism aren't devastated by it? You're speaking from the perspective of someone with MILD autism. |
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Well, I can refer you to a site written by someone who has HFA; from what I can see she has excellent written language skills. Do a google on temple grandin austism. I've read websites written by people with severe to profound autism who are unable to speak for some reason. Many of then are also users of relay services. Did you know that?
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I also think in pictures myself even though I am not autisic. I'm just reminding you it's not a good idea to assume that all autistic have language problems. Many do seem to have expressive difficulties speech wise but it should not be assumed that they have poor command of the native language around them.
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Well, your father can't compare your behavior with him or other children with no ADD... because they are different... All what we want to help ADD children is change their diet... more sports... time and patience with them... All what I help my son with therapy is: Change his diet Need more sport to get aggressive out Need to have time and patience with him Sugar (sweets, soda, sweetner, additives, etc) should not give to ADD children after 2 pm. (Junk foods should be cut)... They need sports instead of watch on TV or play computer... play with him... - turn TV off one hour before his bedtime... it help to reduce his wild and hyper. It work hard on my son when he was a little... Now he is teenager... didn't show his ADD behavior very much. |
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And yes, misdiagnosis does occur from time to time. But usually, the misdiagnosis is in underdiagnosising by the medical community rather than overdiagnosing. As I stated prior, a medical doctor cannot diagnose autism without a full neurological and psychological assessment. |
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jillo, actually according to Exceptional Parent some researchers are thinking that ADD is a form of high functioning autism. I know LD isn't a part of the spectrum, BUT LD kids very often have "Asperger's like" social delays. They don't have Asperger's per se....but they do have the social delays. Some doctors and experts might see those delays and automaticly label LD kids as Aspergers.
(which drives me insane...........I mean I have had a lot of interaction with both Aspie kids and LD kids and their social issues tend to be kinda different...hard to articulate why) |
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Social dealys are evident in many mental disorders. Some are environmentally created, some are inherent in the disorder. Social delays associated with LD are usually environmentally created, and are quite varied according to the individual's environment. And not all children with LD will show social delays. However, impeded social interaction is a diagnostic criteria for autism, and it is a symptom of the disorder itself, not environmentally produced as a secondary effect. "Some researchers are thinking" is only speculation. Neurologists will tell you that the disorders are not related, and the biochemical reactions in the brain to various stimuli are different in those with Autism and those with ADD. Diagnostic criteria are different for the two, and symptomology are different for the two. If there is an expert out there that is labeling a kid either LD or autistic without a full diagnositc work up and history, then their expertise needs to be questioned. |
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How many times does it bear repeating? It takes an army to diagnose autism- neurologists, psychologists and psychiatrists, a GP, ect. One Single Person, no matter what their specialty, cannot diagnose autism.
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I've been diagnosed with Asperger syndrome. My dad had to go private though. He had a letter from a primary school teacher I had discribing my behaviour then and he talked to me for several hours before deciding I had it. It's difficult with me though as I'm only very mildly affected. I suppose it would be possible to misdiagnose like with anything else. My brother was misdiagnosed as having a heart condition when he was at college. It turned out he didnt have it after all and that was after a scan, so anything's possible really.
I would think the other way round would be more common though. I mean people genuinely having something wrong but the doctors not noticing until too late. Like with mum. |
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