Local parents on edge after man caught filming elementary school

The cops said the guy is not doing anything wrong. You gotta be joking , after all the mass shootings that been done by people that had a grudge about something that they did not like the cops are not questioning this guy motive for taking photos of kids for a month. The guy is upset about the traffic the school buses cause and this has me very concerned about why is taking photos of the kids. I hope the HELL I am wrong about I am thinking.
 
whatdidyousay! said:
The cops said the guy is not doing anything wrong. You gotta be joking , after all the mass shootings that been done by people that had a grudge about something that they did not like the cops are not questioning this guy motive for taking photos of kids for a month. The guy is upset about the traffic the school buses cause and this has me very concerned about why is taking photos of the kids. I hope the HELL I am wrong about I am thinking.
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As am I. Think we're all thinking the same thing here.
 
Trying to think of anything other than what most people might think. Here's one of my ideas.

What if he isn't allowed to see his kid due to some kind of custody battle so he films his kid? He is angry that he can't see his kid and tells people off, "none of your business"...
 
MangaReader said:
Trying to think of anything other than what most people might think. Here's one of my ideas.

What if he isn't allowed to see his kid due to some kind of custody battle so he films his kid? He is angry that he can't see his kid and tells people off, "none of your business"...
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It does not say he is banned from seeing his kids , he is banned from being on the school ground . " KOMO reported the school district identified the man as Dustin Girten, who was banned from school property after he “used abusive language” with staff, angered by traffic congestion at the school. Girten has children who attend Lake Wilderness Elementary "

I feel the cops are missing some Red flags here.
 
We know everything. hes a parent, his pissed off, hes not permitted at the school. hes being a dickhead

Thats exactly what this is.

He wants to be seen. if he didn't and was out for something evil he would not be making a spectacle of himself for others to see every damn day for a month.

His stupid too.
because even he had plm with the administration at the school. he purposely went out and made enemies. why? it only makes it harder for him. because a person most likely to mistake this dickheadness for something more evil would exactly be a parent who does not know him. its almost like he has a death wish in my eyes.

you pull this, depending on the neighborhood your physical well being is will be danger.

the plm i see is not so much from the dickhead, i've known many, i see this for what this is.
but from the parents. they wait a month to confront an unknown male taking video of their kids kids? and its a woman that does it? thats brave. the fathers should be ashamed of themselves. he was filing there kids even though it was being pointed primarily at traffic. thats how the parents all of them should take it. if the fathers and mothers had any sense. until you know otherwise. its irresponsible to assume that for a month this guy wasn't a threat. these parents wait a month? further when one of them does confront him and is told

"none of your business"

she gets the vid and goes to facebook?
wow
ok. as a man this is how it should be handled. its actually easy given the aboves fools dickheadness. to me its obvious these have never met very bad men. if they had they would not of waited. they would know the threat men can be and pose. she takes a vid after a month and puts it on th good for her. the fathers should be ashamed further.

confront the man
knock the man out! hit the phone from his hand. confront him with more then one of you if your not confident. what ever you do do it. you need to make sure when you act you can articulate a very good defense. be decisive now. it counts later.

So you get put in the bracelets for a while, if you get charged so what? they wont stick, plead NOT GUILTY!!
you will win.
plm solved. the guy gets knocked out, camera broken, message sent.

Your a hero, who saved the kids, you get the single mama, and roll with it....
(drags cigarette, breaths deep,, exhales)

if by fate you get convicted. (very very very low) your a hero. *shrugs shoulders) do a stretch, you still come out a hero the single ma who's kids you just helped make safe, your time wont be hard, nor long, and you get an agent to menage your affairs because you got it on vid and it went viral. because you had the sense to take it to trial and make it something its not.

win win.

instead...............a mother confronts an unknown male videoing her kids. the fathers blew one of the best opportunity so their lives. the settled for face book and wimping out and further and truer still
(lights cigarette, breaths deep, drinks a scotch)....(pauses)
i could include a good list of polite euphemisms here.........but ladies are present so chivalry demands i use for the fathers the term

whimps.....

and thats that
(sips a fine sip of tea......)
 
hoichi said:
We know everything. hes a parent, his pissed off, hes not permitted at the school. hes being a dickhead

Thats exactly what this is.

He wants to be seen. if he didn't and was out for something evil he would not be making a spectacle of himself for others to see every damn day for a month.

His stupid too.
because even he had plm with the administration at the school. he purposely went out and made enemies. why? it only makes it harder for him. because a person most likely to mistake this dickheadness for something more evil would exactly be a parent who does not know him. its almost like he has a death wish in my eyes.

you pull this, depending on the neighborhood your physical well being is will be danger.

the plm i see is not so much from the dickhead, i've known many, i see this for what this is.
but from the parents. they wait a month to confront an unknown male taking video of their kids kids? and its a woman that does it? thats brave. the fathers should be ashamed of themselves. he was filing there kids even though it was being pointed primarily at traffic. thats how the parents all of them should take it. if the fathers and mothers had any sense. until you know otherwise. its irresponsible to assume that for a month this guy wasn't a threat. these parents wait a month? further when one of them does confront him and is told

"none of your business"

she gets the vid and goes to facebook?
wow
ok. as a man this is how it should be handled. its actually easy given the aboves fools dickheadness. to me its obvious these have never met very bad men. if they had they would not of waited. they would know the threat men can be and pose. she takes a vid after a month and puts it on th good for her. the fathers should be ashamed further.

confront the man
knock the man out! hit the phone from his hand. confront him with more then one of you if your not confident. what ever you do do it. you need to make sure when you act you can articulate a very good defense. be decisive now. it counts later.

So you get put in the bracelets for a while, if you get charged so what? they wont stick, plead NOT GUILTY!!
you will win.
plm solved. the guy gets knocked out, camera broken, message sent.

Your a hero, who saved the kids, you get the single mama, and roll with it....
(drags cigarette, breaths deep,, exhales)

if by fate you get convicted. (very very very low) your a hero. *shrugs shoulders) do a stretch, you still come out a hero the single ma who's kids you just helped make safe, your time wont be hard, nor long, and you get an agent to menage your affairs because you got it on vid and it went viral. because you had the sense to take it to trial and make it something its not.

win win.

instead...............a mother confronts an unknown male videoing her kids. the fathers blew one of the best opportunity so their lives. the settled for face book and wimping out and further and truer still
(lights cigarette, breaths deep, drinks a scotch)....(pauses)
i could include a good list of polite euphemisms here.........but ladies are present so chivalry demands i use for the fathers the term

whimps.....

and thats that
(sips a fine sip of tea......)
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I would like to know why the school is not going anything , they should be taking more action in keeping the guy off the school ground . I can't believe that cops are being so laid back about this. The guy is pissed off and taking photos of other people kids . I really think the parents should pull their kids out school as long as the guy is out there everyday.
 
the plm is and this guy know sit. is he is doing nothing illegel. he is not bieng a criminal.
he snot. hes bieng a dickhead.
when he was confronted he did the smart thing. he walked away. he knew if he started arguing and showing anger it change things especially with a women as the Filmer and confronter.
hes the parents of two kids at the school. why wasnt he even known to all the parents. even vagualy?
int he end hes right though
hes doing nothing illegal .
thats that.
i'm sure the school with a layer can cook something up here to have go away
weird
 
You guys are going off the deep end. He's probably putting together footage to make a case to do something about the traffic. If he was there for nefarious purposes he wouldn't be standing where everyone and their brother can see him day after day. The school and cops aren't concerned about it because they know who he is and why he's doing it.

it's this deep end that causes situations like banning balls and tag............
 
yes its the very deep end.
its rather scary that thats the first thing people think. really how would i handle it all joking aside.
offer him a smoke and ask him whats up.
don't go to him aggressively with a phone in his face recording. you do that if you want to escalate it. if you want to deescalate then first talk tot he sachool
they tell you who and why you go offer him a smoke, talk with him, the school administration probably deserved to be called what ever he called them. find common ground.
you learn what you want, you de escalate by being calm and reasonable, and you know hes doing nothing wrong. he doesn't have to walk away. stay and film. if you notice anything fishy txt me
thats the best way really
 
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