Some Panhandlers' Hard-Luck Tales Are True

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NEW YORK - A scraggy Philip Esposito steps on an uptown train and begins telling his story:

He's HIV positive, homeless and hungry. He needs a few bucks to get something to eat.

Commuters lining the subway car have heard it all before. They ignore him, many assuming he's full of it.

But Esposito, 27, isn't lying.

Among the street hustlers who will say or do anything for a buck, there is a subculture of beggars who use a different approach.

These are the truth tellers.

"It's the one thing I have left," Esposito says. "My honesty."

It's all true, says his aunt, Joy Clifford, who lives on Long Island. Phil is a recovering heroin addict, and he is infected with HIV.

"It's a sad story," she says. "It's a tough world out there."

Unlike most panhandlers, the truth tellers don't have gimmicks. They don't sell pirated movies or stolen candy. They don't strum old guitars, blow into tarnished saxophones or screech country songs off key.

Their pitch is pithy and on point: They're simply pitiful.

Tommy L. Simms, 56, hands commuters copies of a forlorn resume that includes his Social Security number and a facsimile of his driver's license.

"I had an accident when I was younger, I was pushed from a high patio," the handout reads. "Please help as much as you can."

"I put in all this effort to make it real," he says.

Simms, who suffers from epilepsy and blackouts, meanders from station to station, usually pocketing $25 to $30 a day. Some days, he goes home with nothing.

Some days the truth doesn't pay.

Even so, says Michael Stoops, acting executive director of the National Coalition for the Homeless in Washington, D.C., "Whatever your reason for being homeless, it's better to tell the truth than fib."

Stoops, who has worked in the field for 30 years and once taught a course on how to be a polite beggar, estimates half of panhandlers have legitimate stories.

On a train from Brooklyn to Manhattan, a bearded Pancho Tiriado, 47, mumbles and gestures frantically with his hands. Tiriado is deaf and has trouble speaking.

His long, dirty fingers clutch a frayed piece of paper with some Bible verses and some words he cannot speak: "Can you spare change. Deaf and Homeless."

On the back is a suggested donation: $1.00 or 50 cents.

One man gives him a $1.50. Another hands over a $2 lotto ticket.

He is homeless and has been working the trains for a year, he says, the brief interview conducted with pen and paper.

Lenora Desouza, for one, thinks he's telling the truth, mostly because he really uses sign language, which she can read.

"You can see he really needed help," she says. "I don't think he was lying."

She gave him a buck. Two stops later, Tiriado uttered an incomprehensible string of syllables and disappeared.

Tyrone Kimble Mathis, 47, is a former drug addict who slept in the subway 16 years ago.

He's a truth teller, too, but not like most. He's not asking for money for himself; he's begging for others.

In New York, there's always need. A roving police outreach unit reported more than 4,800 contacts with homeless people (and 877 arrests) in 2004, the most recent full-year figures; Mathis, who records his own daily contacts in a notebook, says he made donations to 4,711 people last year.

On a train shuttling between Times Square and Grand Central station, he stands by his shopping cart filled with stuff he has collected for the destitute: fruit, sandwiches, juice, clothes, blankets. His familiar ballad to commuters:

"I'll be brief. This train ride takes 105 seconds. I was once homeless ... now I care for them. Anybody willing to put a few coins in a cup, that could change somebody's luck."

Mathis says he lives in Atlantic City with his wife. He provides a phone number to the Burgundy Motor Inn. Sure enough, the motel attendant recognizes Mathis' name and connects a caller to the room.

Mathis says he solicits for the homeless because he was once one of them. He knows any help goes a long way.

One recent day on the shuttle, the money trickles in at a steady pace, his cup filling up with bills and coins. He says he earns about $100 a day, with many handouts coming from repeat customers.

Much of that goes to the homeless but he uses some for himself — a few dollars for a sandwich, for example. A man's got to eat, he says.

What Tony Owens lacks in height — he's about 5-feet-5 — he makes up in braggadocio.

His nickname is "EZ-E" and when he enters a subway car, he immediately asks people for their sympathy.

He pulls something from his tattered bag, revealing a laminated picture of his common-law wife, who he says died in his arms last year after a massive heart attack.

"One week before Easter, my wife dropped dead," the 47-year-old Owens says.

Owens says they spent 13 years together. A records search confirms the two lived at the same address at the time of her death.

Owens has been making a living on the trains for 15 years. The only successful method, he says, is the righteous one.

"I'm not going to stand here and lie," he says. "You lie and people know you lying. You can't fool no one."

He unfurls his latest police ticket for panhandling, pointing out his name and other personal information. The name matches the one he gave minutes earlier: Tony Owens.

"Telling the truth will set you free," he boasts with a smile.

Before hopping another train at Union Station, an admirer calls out to Owens.

"You tellin' the truth?" she asks.

"You know it," he answers.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060212/ap_on_re_us/subway_stories
 
Hehe. This reminds me, the last time I was in Penn Station in NY my girlfriend and I both got handed cards from a panhandler. We were waiting for food at KFC and we didn't really look at them until he was about to leave. The cards had the manual alphabet and a number of other signs on them and the claim at the panhandler was deaf and was selling additional 'sign cards' to make money for his family.

We rushed over to him and had a brief (yet humorous) conversation with him.

We were separated from two of my other friends (one of which is deaf, other is an interpreter) who ran into the same guy. The four of us laughed pretty hard afterwards.

In retrospect, there's one thing about this story that doesn't quite add up--How did he get the cards printed (even if they were just on normal paper) if he doesn't have any money? The cards, while low-quality printing, were not hand-written.
 
Teresh said:
Hehe. This reminds me, the last time I was in Penn Station in NY my girlfriend and I both got handed cards from a panhandler. We were waiting for food at KFC and we didn't really look at them until he was about to leave. The cards had the manual alphabet and a number of other signs on them and the claim at the panhandler was deaf and was selling additional 'sign cards' to make money for his family.

We rushed over to him and had a brief (yet humorous) conversation with him.

We were separated from two of my other friends (one of which is deaf, other is an interpreter) who ran into the same guy. The four of us laughed pretty hard afterwards.

In retrospect, there's one thing about this story that doesn't quite add up--How did he get the cards printed (even if they were just on normal paper) if he doesn't have any money? The cards, while low-quality printing, were not hand-written.

He just went to Office Depot or Staples or a smaller printing company to get it printed, cut and carded for about $20.00 then the rest goes to food and saving up for a place to leave and pay the rent for his apartment for 1 whole year paid off so he will not be homeless and start with a job search to find a real job and kick any addictions if necessary. He will be in a better position to get back on his own feet then finally take his life back and start to live sleep and finally for real, be able to go to work like a normal man again and get paid with a working paycheck.
 
How do you feel if you become homeless
and everyone else makes the judgement about
these printing cards costs or whatever ?
That is between God and homeless person,
NOT you or me.

Every time when I see homeless person,
I feel very upset and sad. I think this is
NONE of anyone's business to ask questions
and/or make judgement even with some laughter.

Do me a favor. Next time if you see any
homeless person, Please Just give them
what you have. No questions/judgements necessary.

If you suspect that he/she is a drug addict
or a liar or a fake one or whatever,
then you are already making the Judgement
yourself....
Please just allow God take care of
His own Judgements with these homeless
people regardlessly.

If I happen to be at the KFC waiting for
chicken near this homeless person then
I would give him some extra chicken
to eat without asking questions.

I still do NOT understand why some people
were waiting for the food and then have
humorous conversation with this
homeless person nearby.

How can a person dare for having some
"humorous conversations" with the homeless person
especially when this person does NOT have
a place to live ? Plus this person does NOT
have any food or cash, nothing.

Do me a favor. Next time if you see any
homeless person, Please Just give them
what you have. No questions/judgements necessary.

Having some "humorous" conversation with
this homeless person is NOT necessary, neither.
 
Y, you completely misinterpreted my post. We weren't laughing at the fact that he was homeless. That's no laughing matter. We were laughing at the fact that he approached a group of people, two of which are dhh and the other two sign pretty well with the aim of selling ASL cards. Anyone with any sense of humour should be able to appreciate the irony of that (indeed, the homeless man did as well). I can ascertain from this that you have no sense of humour.

As far as giving him money goes, we did give him a few dollars (though we declined the ASL worksheet he was offering as it would have been no use), so don't assume that just because I have a sense of humour that I don't appreciate the struggles of the homeless, because that assumption is just plain wrong and offends me greatly.

As far as the question of how he got the cards printed, that was curiosity as to how he could have gotten them printed (Staples, Office Max, maybe a friend or relative who has a computer?). I would not mean to suggest that he's lying about his situation--He can sign, and that essentially confirms the story.
 
I met an ABC card peddler on a train in Italy a couple of years ago. She was truly deaf and used, I guess, Italian Sign Language. It was pretty hard to sign together as her language and ASL must be very different. But she was very nice and we were both really interested in trying to communicate with each other.

Guess what -- homeless people like to have human interaction as well. You don't have to just shudder and "give them what you have" and by no means have a pleasant conversation. I've been "trained" in the deaf community not to encourage deaf peddlers so I normally don't give them money but I always try to communicate. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. As Teresh said, a couple of them have definitely seen the irony/humor of approaching a signer. I remember striking up a long conversation with one guy who appeared much more interested in chatting than begging once I signed to him.
 
Some homeless people are collecting their money to buy vodka which is obvious that they have AA problems.

A few years ago, my mother and I walked out a building in Hartford, and a deaf man recognized my hearing aids. He came to us and begged me to give him some money for his baby food. We don't believe him for that. He was talking for about 10 minutes. We told him to get SSI for now awhile he could find a job. He could not wait that long so we gave him 5 or 10 bucks. We knew that he had a drinking problem because of his strong breath. Actually, he made up his story about his baby because he wants to buy alcohol. We had the feeling that he is not deaf but he is a good signer. Perhaps, he was an interpreter.
 
I do not give any money to them. If they need something then I would go to store and buy them some foods, if they need jacket I would give them jacket but give them money never cuz they would spend $ on booze or cig. As for deaf peddlars, no thanks. No excuse for them. Many of them live better than me and still go out and be a beggar. I have knew few of them and they pissed me off.
 
Teresh said:
Hehe. This reminds me, the last time I was in Penn Station in NY my girlfriend and I both got handed cards from a panhandler. We were waiting for food at KFC and we didn't really look at them until he was about to leave. The cards had the manual alphabet and a number of other signs on them and the claim at the panhandler was deaf and was selling additional 'sign cards' to make money for his family.

We rushed over to him and had a brief (yet humorous) conversation with him.

We were separated from two of my other friends (one of which is deaf, other is an interpreter) who ran into the same guy. The four of us laughed pretty hard afterwards.

In retrospect, there's one thing about this story that doesn't quite add up--How did he get the cards printed (even if they were just on normal paper) if he doesn't have any money? The cards, while low-quality printing, were not hand-written.

I remember changing planes between LA and San Franscisco airports on our way to Australia. I encountered a "deaf" beggar too and he gave me the card you mention. I was just so caught on the hop that I didn't say anything to him. I was really surprised as a foreigner that they let beggars in to airport transit lounges too (this was before 9/11).

R2D2
 
I don't travel much so I have not had a lot of experience with this. The only time a deaf peddler came up to me was when I was in Union Station in DC with a friend and we were waiting for a train. I was really surprised and said in sign "um, no thanks, I already sign, are you really deaf?" He said he was deaf, and he was a student at Gallaudet. I didn't think to ask him why he was peddling.

There is a book called "Deaf Peddler" that I read recently, it is about a deaf man who is also in a wheelchair and he peddles mostly at airports. It is a pretty cheap book if you want to buy it or maybe you can find it at the library.

That was an interesting article too. Thank you for sharing the stories with us!
 
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