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I found this article in the American Annals of the Deaf ..
"No Longer Who I Was But Not Yet Who I Will Be" by Michael A. Harvey, Ph.D.
One of his patients describes
It's an interesting read about people that became deaf, not being part of either culture,
Communication is the only way to stay connected to each other.
"No Longer Who I Was But Not Yet Who I Will Be" by Michael A. Harvey, Ph.D.
One of his patients describes
“I know I’ve got to accept myself!” she sighed. Jill knew that, like a monkey who didn’t let go of the candy, she would suffer if she didn’t let go of her hearing identity and adopt a new, deaf identity.
It's an interesting read about people that became deaf, not being part of either culture,
It shows that we are talking about two worlds, two cultures that cannot be exchanged with each other. Only the loss of a sense or the aquiring of a sense makes it possible to cross the invisible line but in both cases with a lot of work.I asked her to stand with both her arms outstretched and to imagine one side the Deaf world and the other side the hearing world, and to imagine that she was being pulled from both sides.
The pull to the Deaf world: “We both know what it’s like to be outsiders in a hearing world; we both having hearing losses… But I don’t know ASL and I like many things about the hearing world; I think hearing.”
Therefore the pull to the hearing world: “But there’s a glass wall between me and others. I never feel included.”
As she swayed back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, she grimaced. For the first time, she began to cry. "This is how I feel,” she concluded. “Pulled towards the hearing world and pulled towards the Deaf world; but I'm in neither one." Like Jill, the woman who I told you about at the beginning of my talk, she was no longer hearing but not yet deaf.
Communication is the only way to stay connected to each other.