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:(I'v no idea but a lot of things are getting to me and I just feel :(

I know, your all probably thinking why is she broadcasting it on an open website but i feel like i need to write it down or something

what do you guys usually do to make u feel a bit better again?
 
Deafteen90 said:
:(I'v no idea but a lot of things are getting to me and I just feel :(

I know, your all probably thinking why is she broadcasting it on an open website but i feel like i need to write it down or something

what do you guys usually do to make u feel a bit better again?
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I like to write or I talk to someone I trust and care about.. Also I come online, people who know what you are going through can help you and support you. I like coming here and just reading and looking at things if I am feeling down.. Its ok to broadcast it here, you can trust us...
 
I get realy bad mood swings and get emotional before and after my monthly friend. maybe this is just the problem.

I had an exam on wed so im worried about that, im missing my dad, i cannot wait for college to be over but also worrying about the future and everything. Im dreading college this week, i wish i cud stay indoors n in bed and hide from everybody.
my friends arent making an effort to meet up with me. everytime i ask them if they want to go out its like no because they r busy but when its incovenient to me they just mess around and its frustrating. home isnt much better, arguments. everythings just getting on top
 
Deafteen90 said:
I get realy bad mood swings and get emotional before and after my monthly friend. maybe this is just the problem.

I had an exam on wed so im worried about that, im missing my dad, i cannot wait for college to be over but also worrying about the future and everything. Im dreading college this week, i wish i cud stay indoors n in bed and hide from everybody.
my friends arent making an effort to meet up with me. everytime i ask them if they want to go out its like no because they r busy but when its incovenient to me they just mess around and its frustrating. home isnt much better, arguments. everythings just getting on top
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Yeah sounds like you have lots going on. Have you talked to your doctor about anxiety? Im not saying that you are crazy but I take anxiety meds too and it helps a lot with those kinds of feelings. And everyone cant wait for college to end, its a part of the process.. If your friends are blowing you off are they really your friends??
 
They are the only friends iv got, iv no one else to hang around with. I cant stay at home at the time although i'd prefer to
 
Deafteen90 said:
They are the only friends iv got, iv no one else to hang around with. I cant stay at home at the time although i'd prefer to
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Yeah, I know how that feels. My friends are all hearing with the exception of 2 deaf friends I have made on my own. Its hard for me to want to be around any of them because all anyone wants to do is go to places that are real loud. I don't do well in situations like that. Everyone tries to talk into my ears and always forget I need to look at their faces and read their lips. I try to stay home. I am much happier and while I may not do a lot at home at least I don't have the anxiety of large groups of people in places I can't hear anything. Everyone assumes because I have Hearing aids I can hear everything.. lol I rather have one or two really good friends, then a bunch of friends who don't care about anything going on with me.

You are young though, you have plenty of times to make new friends. I would check with your doctor about anxiety medication. You would be surprised how much they can help the balance of your life.
 
im alright i dont need to see a doctor. i do get anxious/annoyed in large places though, sometimes i get really crabby and annoyed at people.
my mood changes a lot, one minute i can be fine, the next min i can be snappin and havin a go at people, next min im laughing and jokin with my family. i just get angry at times
 
No don't feel embarrassed to talk here. Alldeaf is a great place to get support. Its the season, it's that time of year, and you may be under stress. Hugs.
 
Deafteen90 said:
I get realy bad mood swings and get emotional before and after my monthly friend. maybe this is just the problem.

I had an exam on wed so im worried about that, im missing my dad, i cannot wait for college to be over but also worrying about the future and everything. Im dreading college this week, i wish i cud stay indoors n in bed and hide from everybody.
my friends arent making an effort to meet up with me. everytime i ask them if they want to go out its like no because they r busy but when its incovenient to me they just mess around and its frustrating. home isnt much better, arguments. everythings just getting on top
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It sounds as if you are just overwhelmed. Life gets like that sometimes. Do something you enjoy to pamper yourself. Even something simple can help to counter act the stress. Soak in a hot tub perfumed with oils or bubble bath, eat something chocolate and rich, take time to watch a silly T.V program, read a book that you have been wanting to read...anything that is just for you and you only. You deserve it.
 
deafteen,

i get mood swings too -- although in my case they are due to my bipolar.

however, sometimes they are purely situational such as when i'm stressed about school, an exam or something else.

try to hang in there!

here's hoping things will settle down for you soon...
 
Deafteen90 said:
im alright i dont need to see a doctor. i do get anxious/annoyed in large places though, sometimes i get really crabby and annoyed at people.
my mood changes a lot, one minute i can be fine, the next min i can be snappin and havin a go at people, next min im laughing and jokin with my family. i just get angry at times
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it sounds like you're experiencing normal, everyday stress.
 
i'd like to point out that it is not "crazy" if someone chooses to see a doctor (i.e. therapist or psychiatrist) to discuss the way they feel. in fact, it's commendable and shows that they are taking responsibility in order to get better.
 
and my boyfriend who i split up with 3 mohs ago keep having a go at my friends and keeps telling them how depress he has, he keeps texting me at stupid times and dont care about me, he goes on and on about how he feels and how awful iv been to him and hes generally p***ng me off!
 
Deafteen90 said:
and my boyfriend who i split up with 3 mohs ago keep having a go at my friends and keeps telling them how depress he has, he keeps texting me at stupid times and dont care about me, he goes on and on about how he feels and how awful iv been to him and hes generally p***ng me off!
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Tell him to bugger off!
 
iv tried numerous times, iv blocked him and everthing and he still manages to get to me
 
Deafteen90 said:
iv tried numerous times, iv blocked him and everthing and he still manages to get to me
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sounds like my friend's situation. she was being stalked by this annoying guy who actually paid to get information on her. she moved to LA and lives with her bf but there's nothing under her name in LA to avoid being tracked by him.

fucked up, huh?
 
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