I am not sure if you notice I've mentioned about my aunt Debbie's cancer in some of my posts, but I went to her funeral today (August 20)
Before I am going to talk about the funeral, let me explain about her cancer and the death. This was actually wasn't her first time cancer, she did got a cancer at her back, but the doctor removed it, and then second time, she found some cancer on her chest and they were removed. Third time, she found another cancer on below of her stomach and the doctor found out the cancer already attacked her kidney so it was too late. All of the cancer she got are from the sunlight.
I remember I went to her house at my very first time, I only see her when I go to the Oregon State Fair once every year, that's the only when I see her in my lifetime.
Anyway, when I went to her house last week at the first time, it was very shocking to see her. She doesn't look the same at all, her face expression was the same, I was told by some of my hearing family that her voice was still the same, but how she look was scary and sad, she look very thin, her arm look like no muscle or fats at all, just the skin and bone just like a piece of wood stick. Her hairs are nearly gone, her chubby face change into a 80 years old look face without any chubby while she was only 50 years old. She seems cannot keep the foods in her stomach, she just kept threw up after she eat something, she cannot walk at all. All she can do is lay on the bed and talk to someone.
However, she died last August 14.
The funeral was actually a party, she doesn't want us to do the funeral for her, she want us to be happy to see that she is in the Heaven and wanted us to drop bunches of balloons to the sky as gift for her. We did it.
Rest in peace, Debbie.
Before I am going to talk about the funeral, let me explain about her cancer and the death. This was actually wasn't her first time cancer, she did got a cancer at her back, but the doctor removed it, and then second time, she found some cancer on her chest and they were removed. Third time, she found another cancer on below of her stomach and the doctor found out the cancer already attacked her kidney so it was too late. All of the cancer she got are from the sunlight.
I remember I went to her house at my very first time, I only see her when I go to the Oregon State Fair once every year, that's the only when I see her in my lifetime.
Anyway, when I went to her house last week at the first time, it was very shocking to see her. She doesn't look the same at all, her face expression was the same, I was told by some of my hearing family that her voice was still the same, but how she look was scary and sad, she look very thin, her arm look like no muscle or fats at all, just the skin and bone just like a piece of wood stick. Her hairs are nearly gone, her chubby face change into a 80 years old look face without any chubby while she was only 50 years old. She seems cannot keep the foods in her stomach, she just kept threw up after she eat something, she cannot walk at all. All she can do is lay on the bed and talk to someone.
However, she died last August 14.
The funeral was actually a party, she doesn't want us to do the funeral for her, she want us to be happy to see that she is in the Heaven and wanted us to drop bunches of balloons to the sky as gift for her. We did it.
Rest in peace, Debbie.
