Why?? (No offense)

PuyoPiyo · 08-31-2007, 03:48 AM

I want to know why gay men are so obessive about having the sex? Even though I am gay myself, but it is getting annoying when gay men asking me to have the sex all the times.

Examples:

When I chat with one of my friend who are gay, and he want me to come over, I told him sure I want to, then he told me "Well my friend is here at my apartment right now, I prefer other time so we can a nice night". I was like wtf? His friend is my friend too and I would like to see him too, but I didn't say anything but skipped him.

Other guy who I chat with, who are gay too, he ask me if he can come over and get drunk, which give me the hints that he want to have sex with me. He kept begging me to let him to come, but lucky other my friend want me to visit her so I skip that guy and visit her instead.

I didn't mean ALL of gay guys are too horny for me, but why sex?? Is that only the reason why men want to be gay just because they want to have sex with boys or men? I mean what about the relationship or love or learning about each other or a truly friendship?

Phillips · 08-31-2007, 06:32 AM

My gay friends do disappoint after sex and then left!

so careful and find a right one

PowerON · 08-31-2007, 09:26 AM

it's normal as straight male who desperate for sex.

Phillips · 08-31-2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by PowerON

it's normal as straight male who desperate for sex.

Yep also
Some straight male or female dump a person with after sex too!!!

PuyoPiyo · 08-31-2007, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Phillips

My gay friends do disappoint after sex and then left!

so careful and find a right one

I do have experience having sex

But why have to be sex?

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Originally Posted by PowerON

it's normal as straight male who desperate for sex.

Yeah I guess..

PlateCafe · 08-31-2007, 06:46 PM

I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.

Phillips · 08-31-2007, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by PuyoPiyo

I do have experience having sex

But why have to be sex?

Yeah I guess..

Maybe need feeling good!?

MetroGuy03 · 08-31-2007, 08:42 PM

I can relate to that from my personal experiences...

Most gay men who wants to have sex with strangers or friends... It is all about boosting their egos.

Some of my gay friends always brag how many guys they have sex with.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex could lead to long term relationship.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex will give them the result if these people who they having sex with are right people for them.

People (not just gay) in the general like to have sex for their own pleasures and need to let it out.

MetroGuy03 · 08-31-2007, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by PlateCafe

I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.

That person is fucked up dude, seriously!

KarissaMann05 · 08-31-2007, 09:42 PM

No offense, a lust is a man's weakness I think. Because, normally, I seen many males are sex-hungry, however, I also had been a few females just fucked them and left them for gossping about them to hurt their feelings.

Funny, what I see is... a "dangerous" female who can manitlapive a male's heart. MANY TIMES. No offense, really. Besides, its IMO.

I guess a word, "lust", is just too much for a person's (either a male or female) own weakness.

I think there is one sovle a problem: open-minded parents are probably can reduce a lusty if they treat a child properly. Maybe?

What's your thought, you guys? Inculding you, Zack too.

PS- Yeah.. I hate what they are doing to gay men and girls, too.. *sighs*

PuyoPiyo · 09-01-2007, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by PlateCafe

I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.

I disagree with that man, gay couples can have the chocolate box or roses. He said that gay guys are cheap and want to have sex with them is quite rude.

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Originally Posted by MetroGuy03

I can relate to that from my personal experiences...

Most gay men who wants to have sex with strangers or friends... It is all about boosting their egos.

Some of my gay friends always brag how many guys they have sex with.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex could lead to long term relationship.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex will give them the result if these people who they having sex with are right people for them.

People (not just gay) in the general like to have sex for their own pleasures and need to let it out.

Egoism, good word. Yeah I understand everyone like to have sex, but why always sex? I can see your point, having the sex to boost their egoism. Thank you for sharing your opinion!

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Originally Posted by Mann_K05

No offense, a lust is a man's weakness I think. Because, normally, I seen many males are sex-hungry, however, I also had been a few females just fucked them and left them for gossping about them to hurt their feelings.

Funny, what I see is... a "dangerous" female who can manitlapive a male's heart. MANY TIMES. No offense, really. Besides, its IMO.

I guess a word, "lust", is just too much for a person's (either a male or female) own weakness.

I think there is one sovle a problem: open-minded parents are probably can reduce a lusty if they treat a child properly. Maybe?

What's your thought, you guys? Inculding you, Zack too.

PS- Yeah.. I hate what they are doing to gay men and girls, too.. *sighs*

I agree with you, it can be dangerous when girls play with guy's heart. But guys can be dangerous if they get violence.

Anyway, about open-minded parents, well it depends.. I have one friend who I raise with, his parents always let him look at the porno, etc. but now he is very addicted to the sex and porno, and he was also a drugs addictor.

It's all just depends on how people desire for sex, ya know.

netrox · 09-01-2007, 04:22 PM

Actually, gays are a lot more sexual obsessed than straights. The STD epidemic within homosexual communities is a POWERFUL evidence for their sexual addiction.

Gays admit more sexual encounters than straights. Not surprising.

Gay communities are horrible - they're a disgrace. They promote moral decay. They promote the spread of STD's. They promote safe sex over abstainance. They promote hedonism. The average gay man dies up to 20 years younger than the average straight person (due to drugs, HIV, etc). That's why I have low opinions of the gay community.

Maria · 09-02-2007, 12:22 AM

I don't find that a " sex " is the number one priority. To me, sex is always the last ... probably I will say a zillionth at the end of the line. It's okay to have sex once in a while because, your health might need it to help gettin' well from runny nose or some kind of colds. It also helps some people to sleep better and other reasons.

But, if they want to have sex with you the whole time - then, there's somethin' wrong. It is not healthy to have sex alll the time like 24/7 or 365 days. Yikes !

It's gettin' stale.

Best to use your judgement not to get caught if, they give you STD or some kinds of disease. Just becareful because, you are more important than receivin' " death " sentence. You mean alot to some friends, families and AD members here.

dartmouth · 09-02-2007, 02:17 PM

gay men keep souls in dicks and butts

Pacman · 09-02-2007, 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PlateCafe

I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.

hehe, that's southern style man.

PlateCafe · 09-02-2007, 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maria

I don't find that a " sex " is the number one priority. To me, sex is always the last ... probably I will say a zillionth at the end of the line. It's okay to have sex once in a while because, your health might need it to help gettin' well from runny nose or some kind of colds. It also helps some people to sleep better and other reasons.

But, if they want to have sex with you the whole time - then, there's somethin' wrong. It is not healthy to have sex alll the time like 24/7 or 365 days. Yikes !

It's gettin' stale.

Best to use your judgement not to get caught if, they give you STD or some kinds of disease. Just becareful because, you are more important than receivin' " death " sentence. You mean alot to some friends, families and AD members here.

Women need sex, especially during Ovulation time. Husbands can be
raped by wives. I think women are the one who control population growth.
Men want to have sex all the time. Early this summer at the park, I saw a young (age 20's) Black albino woman with 6 little kids. Men were all over her. Poor girl.

Oddball · 09-03-2007, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by netrox

Actually, gays are a lot more sexual obsessed than straights. The STD epidemic within homosexual communities is a POWERFUL evidence for their sexual addiction.

Gays admit more sexual encounters than straights. Not surprising.

Gay communities are horrible - they're a disgrace. They promote moral decay. They promote the spread of STD's. They promote safe sex over abstainance. They promote hedonism. The average gay man dies up to 20 years younger than the average straight person (due to drugs, HIV, etc). That's why I have low opinions of the gay community.

Your opinion of gay community is very interesting. I never thought about gay men have tendencies of having sex with different men in general and get more STDs, HIV, etc than straight men.

Personally, I love sex, but I have to be careful with whom I get involved with. I am in the middle 30's, my hormones are crazy as fuck. I am telling you.

Oh, well that's life.

Freaky Cat · 09-03-2007, 10:13 AM

I wonder why the men always want sex every day?? I dont understand why? why cant they accept wait few days to a week then make love? but no must have sex all times! they can do it with their best friend.. thats what they are for?

HappyBoi · 09-03-2007, 10:19 PM

I agree, I mean sex is great, but there are too many std's out there for me to take a chance, i'd rather find someone to be with then to go out every night & sleep with some random guy. I guess i'm more about relationships then anything else. That's rare to find anyone else who feels the same way tho. =\

MetroGuy03 · 09-03-2007, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by HappyBoi

I agree, I mean sex is great, but there are too many std's out there for me to take a chance, i'd rather find someone to be with then to go out every night & sleep with some random guy. I guess i'm more about relationships then anything else. That's rare to find anyone else who feels the same way tho. =\

I agree! That's why I don't go any further with any guys... Only with boyfriends.

PuyoPiyo · 09-03-2007, 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by netrox

Actually, gays are a lot more sexual obsessed than straights. The STD epidemic within homosexual communities is a POWERFUL evidence for their sexual addiction.

Gays admit more sexual encounters than straights. Not surprising.

Gay communities are horrible - they're a disgrace. They promote moral decay. They promote the spread of STD's. They promote safe sex over abstainance. They promote hedonism. The average gay man dies up to 20 years younger than the average straight person (due to drugs, HIV, etc). That's why I have low opinions of the gay community.

Interesting about your opinion. Of course, being gay or lesbian is not a identify, just a sexual orientation. Well there is nothing to stop the homosexual community because we can't stop people from liking what they really like, ya know..

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Originally Posted by Maria

I don't find that a " sex " is the number one priority. To me, sex is always the last ... probably I will say a zillionth at the end of the line. It's okay to have sex once in a while because, your health might need it to help gettin' well from runny nose or some kind of colds. It also helps some people to sleep better and other reasons.

But, if they want to have sex with you the whole time - then, there's somethin' wrong. It is not healthy to have sex alll the time like 24/7 or 365 days. Yikes !

It's gettin' stale.

Best to use your judgement not to get caught if, they give you STD or some kinds of disease. Just becareful because, you are more important than receivin' " death " sentence. You mean alot to some friends, families and AD members here.

Totally with you on this! Having sex 365 days every year is definitely not good. And thank you for the concerns about me

Yupp I will be carefully around the world

Quote:

Originally Posted by dartmouth

gay men keep souls in dicks and butts

What do you expect me to say about this? "Straight folks keep soul in pussy 'n' dicks"? Nonsense.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Freaky Cat

I wonder why the men always want sex every day?? I dont understand why? why cant they accept wait few days to a week then make love? but no must have sex all times! they can do it with their best friend.. thats what they are for?

Aha other one!

Yeah that's my question, why only sex? Even some people only look what is between transsexual's leg for the sex while the transexual stats that it is only their self-expression.

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Originally Posted by HappyBoi

I agree, I mean sex is great, but there are too many std's out there for me to take a chance, i'd rather find someone to be with then to go out every night & sleep with some random guy. I guess i'm more about relationships then anything else. That's rare to find anyone else who feels the same way tho. =\

Yeah sex is really great, but I believe thinking about only sex is unhealthy. I agree with you, finding a relationship in the gay culture is really hard :/

PlateCafe · 09-03-2007, 11:31 PM

If you think about it.... men got to go inside somebody to feel good.
Gross isn't it?

HappyBoi · 09-03-2007, 11:51 PM

Yeah so true, when you think about it, sure sex is a big part of your relationship when your younger, but when you get older, your sex drive slows down, THAT'S when you realize that the important thing is loving eachother & seeing past the sexual part of your relationship.

08-31-2007, 03:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
PuyoPiyo slotting Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Fourth Plain Village WA Posts: 4,780	Why?? (No offense) I want to know why gay men are so obessive about having the sex? Even though I am gay myself, but it is getting annoying when gay men asking me to have the sex all the times. Examples: When I chat with one of my friend who are gay, and he want me to come over, I told him sure I want to, then he told me "Well my friend is here at my apartment right now, I prefer other time so we can a nice night". I was like wtf? His friend is my friend too and I would like to see him too, but I didn't say anything but skipped him. Other guy who I chat with, who are gay too, he ask me if he can come over and get drunk, which give me the hints that he want to have sex with me. He kept begging me to let him to come, but lucky other my friend want me to visit her so I skip that guy and visit her instead. I didn't mean ALL of gay guys are too horny for me, but why sex?? Is that only the reason why men want to be gay just because they want to have sex with boys or men? I mean what about the relationship or love or learning about each other or a truly friendship? __________________ Finally found Ruby, my puppy See this thread for more info. http://www.alldeaf.com/our-pets/5515...ml#post1049543 But my computer is still unreliable so be patient with me please

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KarissaMann05 Jessie's Character Join Date: May 2007 Location: Oregon Posts: 2,117 Blog Entries: 6	No offense, a lust is a man's weakness I think. Because, normally, I seen many males are sex-hungry, however, I also had been a few females just fucked them and left them for gossping about them to hurt their feelings. Funny, what I see is... a "dangerous" female who can manitlapive a male's heart. MANY TIMES. No offense, really. Besides, its IMO. I guess a word, "lust", is just too much for a person's (either a male or female) own weakness. I think there is one sovle a problem: open-minded parents are probably can reduce a lusty if they treat a child properly. Maybe? What's your thought, you guys? Inculding you, Zack too. PS- Yeah.. I hate what they are doing to gay men and girls, too.. sighs __________________ Credit by KarissaMann05

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PlateCafe Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 180	I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.

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MetroGuy03 Registered User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 844	I can relate to that from my personal experiences... Most gay men who wants to have sex with strangers or friends... It is all about boosting their egos. Some of my gay friends always brag how many guys they have sex with. Some gay people I know believes that having sex could lead to long term relationship. Some gay people I know believes that having sex will give them the result if these people who they having sex with are right people for them. People (not just gay) in the general like to have sex for their own pleasures and need to let it out.

09-02-2007, 12:22 AM	#13 (permalink)
Maria Premium Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 7,774	I don't find that a " sex " is the number one priority. To me, sex is always the last ... probably I will say a zillionth at the end of the line. It's okay to have sex once in a while because, your health might need it to help gettin' well from runny nose or some kind of colds. It also helps some people to sleep better and other reasons. But, if they want to have sex with you the whole time - then, there's somethin' wrong. It is not healthy to have sex alll the time like 24/7 or 365 days. Yikes ! It's gettin' stale. Best to use your judgement not to get caught if, they give you STD or some kinds of disease. Just becareful because, you are more important than receivin' " death " sentence. You mean alot to some friends, families and AD members here.

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dartmouth Banned Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 29	gay men keep souls in dicks and butts

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Freaky Cat Lost in Space Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ArKaNsAs Posts: 10,143	I wonder why the men always want sex every day?? I dont understand why? why cant they accept wait few days to a week then make love? but no must have sex all times! they can do it with their best friend.. thats what they are for?

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HappyBoi Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 46	I agree, I mean sex is great, but there are too many std's out there for me to take a chance, i'd rather find someone to be with then to go out every night & sleep with some random guy. I guess i'm more about relationships then anything else. That's rare to find anyone else who feels the same way tho. =\

09-03-2007, 11:31 PM	#22 (permalink)
PlateCafe Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 180	If you think about it.... men got to go inside somebody to feel good. Gross isn't it?

09-03-2007, 11:51 PM	#23 (permalink)
HappyBoi Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 46	Yeah so true, when you think about it, sure sex is a big part of your relationship when your younger, but when you get older, your sex drive slows down, THAT'S when you realize that the important thing is loving eachother & seeing past the sexual part of your relationship.