I just got home, after eating brunch with a female friend. We met at Panera Bread, and I had a delicious cheese pastry and coffee. Connie told me how her she caught her husband in bed with the babysitter.... broke her heart. She left him, and now is financially broke as well. So, she's the big looser. She lost her heart and her stable home; but, in return she is getting back her dignity. Guys need to keep it in their pants and be faithful to their women.