Originally Posted by jiro123

To answer your question, Meggie... Yes I think it's good idea to be on mainstream because we live in real world where it's hard enough to survive. We (the disabled people) need to learn how to get along with mainstream and to function with them. Yes it is hard enough when we're in schools that have ignorant people, bullies, or administrators who are not very helpful.

All my life - I was in public schools. I just graduated from state college as well. My parents fought constantly with school boards for accommodations. In my high school, the school didn't have enough budget for new accommodation since I don't know ASL. The secretary of NJ education department (actually I'm not exactly sure of his position but he's responsible for budget approval) was extremely gracious enough to come down to have a talk with me. Trenton (state capitol) is pretty far! After 5 min meeting, he approved the budget for my accommodation. Back in 90's, things were pretty difficult but it gets easier in 2000's. Most schools are very willing to provide you every accommodations they can without question. I've been to 4 different colleges for summer programs and each was able to provide accommodation immediately without question. Yes there are some you may encounter that are very unwilling or provide you mediocre service. You just gotta fight for it and demand it! Just look at my avatar and that's the game face you gotta put on to people who do not want to help you.