A suggestion: Go to harriscommunications.com and check out their baby monitors. The ones that flashes can be used for when you're asleep. I learned how to wake up with the flashing lights for my babies...and I also had the vibrating monitor as well. I used that one if I was working around the house. Hope you find something soon - you're gonna need it!
Congrats on the baby! Trust me- this baby will grow faster than your eyes can believe - so enjoy every precious moments every minute that you can
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