Originally Posted by Rainshower77

being proposed three times in my lifetime (two who loved me but I broke off the relationship.. the third is my husband).. I was excited everytime, and said yes

The two I was with, the first one cheated on me sort of..I found out before he actually cheated.. he was on his way to meet someone. The second kept delaying marriage.. and I knew our relationship isn't just meant to be. Delaying marriage is a sign that this person is just not serious about marrying you, or afraid of marrying you and there is no trust in the relationship. I think it had alot to do with my hearing. I think my ex was afraid of actually being committed to someone who is deaf. But I didn't like it when he kept making empty promises "oh, let's just wait til we have enough money" or "We will get marry within six months" etc. but never got down to be serious about it. Then my ex gets mad that I am pushing marriage... well duh, he propose to me, I thought he was serious.


When you propose to someone... you have to really mean it too.. You have to be willing to marry within the next day ...NEVER PROPOSE TO SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS WITH.