when my dad was with my mom, they had a bank account together. I remember dad always wrote checks and it bounced. He never told my mom if he wrote checks or not. he just do it. he doesnt care. My mom get mad and told him why didnt u tell me that you wrote a check for that and what etc. he just yell at my mom..
so from what i have seen my parents.. i didnt want to be like that.. so i prefer to have my own bank account where i can keep track of. so when I was with my husband I took care of my bills and my husband took care of his bills. Sometimes I had to remind him to pay bills as he forget but not always. He didnt like it cuz he want to share bank account till his mom came over and told me we must share bank account.
I told her I prefer to keep the bank accounts separated that way i can make sure it doesnt bounce. My husband's account always bounce. so who knows he may spent all of my money? i dont think so...
My brother had same problem last fall. His wife took all of his money and left to go on vacation supposedly meeting a man from internet. no foods in house, bills not paid, taxes not paid. he have to go work? so my mom gave him some money to pay taxes and gas to go to work. That sucks if it happen to me? forget it. i want to keep my bank account separated.
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