Hey,
I am a hearing girl involved with a deaf man and our differences in whether or not we can hear, has never really been the problem. He always thought he wanted a deaf girl, and then he met me
Sometimes what you think you want and then what you come to find out really matters, can be really different. I would encourage you to remain open to everyone- hearing or not. Plus I think it's good that people cross over eachothers boundaries because that's what divides us and that is the very thing we all hate soo much- to be seperated. I get it as a hearing girl with the deaf community. When I first met my guy, he wanted a deaf girl like I said. Part of me never felt good enough because of that. Or how bout when he's with everyone that's deaf and I can't keep up with the signing. You know what I do? I get over it and make my way. I want "him" deaf or not. I've never even seen him as deaf- I see him.