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Old 05-05-2008, 07:48 PM   #13 (permalink)
shel90
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Originally Posted by Jolie_77 View Post
It depends on how the marriage is. If the marriage is in shambles ie; abusive, violent, at danger, so and on - It'd be preferable to divorce and to survive. If a marriage is at it's greatest high, then "death us part" should be the main objective. Of course, everyone knows that a marriage has it's ups and downs. It's part of life having to encounter with ups and downs but it doesn't mean one should immediately divorce. There's a reason for kissing and making up.



Yes, We all will die one way or other. So, in another word - If one is in a marriage that turns for the worse and would rather to die than to avoid divorce is putting a great deal of hardship on his/her self as a whole.
I am with u. I have been divorced and I wouldnt wish death on my ex hubby just to end the marriage. My daughter needs her daddy. Of course, I dont want to die young!!! I have too much to live for!
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