Originally Posted by webexplorer

How will you know if your husband goes out to a bar to get away from you once a while? deafbajagal is right about the comment.

Please never let him to tell you what to do. It's your life. You know taking care of a baby is a LOT of work and energy because it is just like a slave for 8 years. Actually, he should be responsible to take care of your baby when you need a break. You would not want to be in the 1960's what the mothers were slavery. Hope that helps.