Originally Posted by Reba

That's nice that you respect your mom but you are 25 years old so you should be setting your own rules. Maybe use a webcam with the rule that no pictures allowed below the waist or without clothing?

If you marry James someday, you two won't need a webcam. I know that you haven't met or dated James in person yet but if you get married you will at least do that in person, not by email (I hope!).

Please don't take this the wrong way but if you haven't seen James are you sure that James is a young man?