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Originally Posted by shel90
Thanks...I am not hurt anymore. I have moved on and have a much better marriage than I did with my ex. I always felt beneath him and was always apologizing him for everything that went wrong. In that marriage, "everything was my fault." Also, whenever I expressed my feelings, he always brushed me off. Wasnt a healthy marriage so I am kinda glad he cheated on me because I was so blind to our marriage problems. It was like a wake up call for me.
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Shel ... your story is just like mine with my ex. He did the cheating and of course, I was the last to know. I was the one to keep making a go of the marriage but it wasn't to be. I was too timid to stand up for myself at that time as I would either get clobbered or verbally abused. When he cheated again ... that was it! so I moved in back with my parents and got divorced. I didn't realized until later that I was relieved! It took a while to trust anyone again and have happily remarried.