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Originally Posted by shel90
My ex hubby cheated on me...funny thing what hurted me the most was that he lied to me about it for 2 months when I begged him to pls tell me the truth. It is a long story but my gut feeling told me that he was having an affair so I asked him about it and he said no way. However, my friends at Gallaudet knew the truth since he was having an affair with the girlfriend of one Gally student so of course in the Deaf community, secrets like that are hard to keep. So, I chose to believe my husband over my friends and after 2 months of hell, he finally admitted the truth to me. That hurted me more than the affair itself.
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I went thru the same thing. I begged and asked him to tell me. I kept seeing him wearing her shirts. he denied it. the more he stayed away from home and spending the night at his best friends house, etc. I knew he is up to something. I was not dumb but he said no then i found the note in the pants when i was doing the laundry. that hurts. he was cheating on me for almost 3 months while I was pregnant then grieving for the death of my twin sons. losing the kids and ex bf same time. i dont want to go thru that ever again.
Now he said he regret putting me thru that and wished he didnt do that to me in first place. Well its too late but i forgived him for that but I WILL never forget this ever. hard not to.
that was the horrible and darkest time of my life.
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