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ok well to try answer some questions,I don't think my son has ADD, he just has alot of energy and likes to push boundaries. I dont have any diffuculties in the car with him myself, EVEN during long car rides.
his language skills are not too strong, since he has only been learning ASL since he was two. so I can't get a really detailed answer from him of what she did to make him not want to be near her.
there were teachers present to try make the transition easier apparently, but i don't know what all was said or done.
I am not sure if she left him alone in the car, i am not sure if she hurt him... all i know is that she consistently told him "NO' and said "bad" because it was the only ASL she knew. learning positive signs would have been a better strategy if you ask me.
I had reported her to her boss on prior occasions for things like this and for being an HOUR late picking up my son for school, which only resulted in her not speaking to me for two months. nothing was ever done about it.
the odd thing here is that out of all four of my kids hearing and deaf, this child in question is the best behaved of them all. he gives us little to no trouble at home. and for a five year old, I personally think that's great.
we did pull him out of school, we are moving to a different state because of all the troubles we have had with transportation. and now they will only have a 15 minute ride to school. we move this weekend, and the new school is working hard to get them into their school program ASAP. i have done all the iep paperwork already, we are having a meeting monday, and he should be in the new school by mid next week.
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