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Well, I grieve differently because its based on who. My grandfather died in 94 and I went into depression. My mother died in 2005, I was pretty strong and had faith that she's with God and she's happy. however, I was young when my grandfather died and I needed him. my mother was ill for 9 years and I was prepared for that and older. I have a better understanding of how to cope with the loss of your loved ones.
on the other hand, I grieved just this past 2 months. Something tragic has happened and the grief was entirely different. Something I never ever thought would happen to me. I realized that I had taken people for granted and knowing now.. I'm not alone, I've had really awesome supporters thru friends and online friends and family. I'm doing better and better everyday and will never be forgotten but to forgive myself. this grief was more difficult than I grieved my own loved ones.
It all varies.
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