How do I deal with my warth family?
I can't stand it anymore... I'm so sick of their warth over a little thing, currently!
For explain: You are accidently sipping a several drops of water liquids from a kind of cup when you trip a something, suddenly your mom shout and blurt at you, "BE CAREFUL!! YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO WATCH OUT!! CLEAN YOUR MESS UP!!"
Other explain: You make a little mess thing, like a several spilled foods on a table, and you got a long shouting comment over that little thing. I have to clean up faster.
Another explain: Even worse, I was junior student of high school and I lost SK2 once, my family made me to feel I was an idiot and I got screaming comments from them. Make it BIG deal!!
Funny... My family made a small mistake and I don't scream back at all, but WHY MY FAMILY?
Each warth comment made me uncomfy and refused to express out what happened events, sharing how I feel, and etc etc. I could not express out that I was a major depressing and sleepnig a lot, because they thought I was selfish and self-centered, or got an attention. I could not inform them whatever I need something, because they may think I am not take care of myself enough or not take a responality.. whatever it is, I can't stand to face them each I want to help, otherwise, I would get a warth comment from them. I always ask my friends for help instead. -SIGHS!-
I'm so SICK OF IT!!! I have enough with tolerant their ranting voices!!
I don't know how to face my family how I feel about their warth voices toward me all the times. It's very frustating.
What should I do? I need some supportive and cooperative comments from you, ADers, please?
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Last edited by KarissaMann05; 02-03-2008 at 05:47 PM.
Reason: forget to add "my"
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