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[quote=Silentwolfdog;897157]With this phrase "Nice guy finish last." I always added "Sometimes they get the best one."
Only if they learn to stop and actually look at ones that were with them.
After all, a nice girl finish last as well. Trust me.
I totally agree with this Bear's phrase "You pass up some very good hearts, when you over look that slightly or severely overweight woman."
I am one of those that wait for nice guy that finish last. Since they are last, it means I have to wait longer than most. But I am waiting, only for one that don't give up in the middle of "race."
Most deaf guys where I live don't go to college. Usually it is deaf women who go. I know education isn't important but this does sent an uncomfortable messages to me. What is deaf guy's goal? What does he do for free time? Etc.
If he works as janitor but yet understand the world, then I will be happy with him regardless of where he works. I am an odd one, I like to have a deep conversation with someone and if they don't provide me that, then I get bored.[/QUOTE]
U are not the only one who is odd...I am the same too. I have dated several deaf guys and it is those who challenge me intellectually are the ones that I fall for. The ones who talk about video games, how cool they are, and how many women they can get are the ones who bore me.
I fell for this one deaf guy in New York City..he was very very creative with how he played around with English to make people laugh. I loved bantering him and having myself being challenged to come up with a better come-back. Too bad, he wasnt ready for a commitment at the time. It wasnt meant to be, I guess.
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~Shel~ 
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