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rdasilvari · 01-02-2008, 01:25 PM

Sorry, this may seem alittle harsh........

It has been objectively found in various research studies, that most (single) women will "size" you up within the first 5 minutes of meeting/conversating.

So make those first 5 minutes really count. And to read and pay particular attention to nonverbal communcation and gestures by the women folk. Your future breeding oppurtunities count on it.

"Nice guys do finish last."

1. Play a little hard to get.

Create a little mystery, make it so that she leaves wanting more. Be slightly ambiguous (but not too much).

Don't act all "clingy or desperate", it's effeminate. Chicks hate that (that is their domain). Especially the youngsters. *J/K ladies.

2. No pity parties (i.e. do NOT speak about past relationships/ex-gfs/grief, or whatever). Sorry, no one wants to know about it, especially on the first meetup. Maybe later, over wine and cheese?

No one wants to hang out with a downer. Yes, life is sometimes cruel.

3. Groom, groom, groom.

Update your wardrobe. Throw away (or donate) those vintage clothes from the 80s. You're not in HS or college anymore. Comb your hair. Brush your teeth. Make sure no loose nose/ear hairs are visible. Take frequent showers, or wear decent cologne. Exercise more.

Take care of your appearance because it nonverbally says alot about you.

4. Be very confident of yourself.

Learn to be comfortable in your own skin.

Be goal oriented. Have a sense of humour. Be "cocky/funny" (assertive). Chicks dig that.

Last thing (and there is any more), try not to speak to a woman in a group. The group will ALWAYS shoot you down (either in front of you or after). If any chance, separate her from the "herd" of group thinking.

Good luck.

01-02-2008, 01:25 PM	#15 (permalink)
rdasilvari Registered User Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Ontario Posts: 9	Sorry, this may seem alittle harsh........ It has been objectively found in various research studies, that most (single) women will "size" you up within the first 5 minutes of meeting/conversating. So make those first 5 minutes really count. And to read and pay particular attention to nonverbal communcation and gestures by the women folk. Your future breeding oppurtunities count on it. "Nice guys do finish last." 1. Play a little hard to get. Create a little mystery, make it so that she leaves wanting more. Be slightly ambiguous (but not too much). Don't act all "clingy or desperate", it's effeminate. Chicks hate that (that is their domain). Especially the youngsters. J/K ladies. 2. No pity parties* (i.e. do NOT speak about past relationships/ex-gfs/grief, or whatever). Sorry, no one wants to know about it, especially on the first meetup. Maybe later, over wine and cheese? No one wants to hang out with a downer. Yes, life is sometimes cruel. 3. Groom, groom, groom. Update your wardrobe. Throw away (or donate) those vintage clothes from the 80s. You're not in HS or college anymore. Comb your hair. Brush your teeth. Make sure no loose nose/ear hairs are visible. Take frequent showers, or wear decent cologne. Exercise more. Take care of your appearance because it nonverbally says alot about you. 4. Be very confident of yourself. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin. Be goal oriented. Have a sense of humour. Be "cocky/funny" (assertive). Chicks dig that. Last thing (and there is any more), try not to speak to a woman in a group. The group will ALWAYS shoot you down (either in front of you or after). If any chance, separate her from the "herd" of group thinking. Good luck. __________________ "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than a sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." Martin Luther King, Jr.