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Old 01-01-2008, 04:05 PM   #10 (permalink)
Cheri
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Originally Posted by restless_heart View Post
I have two hearing children. I never push them to learn to sign. We don't use sign, unless if they want to. When they ask me to learn some signs, I was happy to teach them. My daughter is learning to sign to talk with my hubby because maybe times he doesn't understand her. She would sign if she needs to speak with me private about personal matters. I never sign back.
I'm with you 100 percent, I too have two hearing children, I never once force them to learn my language just because I'm deaf simply because it isn't all about me, it's about my children and their language. It's like forcing a deaf child to speak because a child has hearing parents who doesn't use signs. It's not right in my opinion. You just got to see in their world from your own.

If you want your children to sign, then you got to go half way with them and speak for them. It's a two way street.
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