Originally Posted by Byrdie714

If your one friend is talking about gays for no reason, he could be "testing" you to see if you are a "safe" person to "Come out" too. Many gays and lesbians sometimes "test" other people to see if it's okay to let them know that they are gay/lesbian because of personal safety.
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Do they test people of opposite sex to see if it is safe to come out to that person??? I am not lesbian and I just don't want to be used by any man who wants to use me as 'cover' to make him look respectable in public. Women need to know of this. Men don't have to use women as cover as they can use their job as too busy to find a woman. Any excuse will do, just don't use the women for cover.

I know gay bashing is real. Is there such as lesbian bashing?? I only heard about gay bashing, never lesbian bashing.

The first guy I was telling you thinks marriage will cure him of his homosexuality. He doesn't use the term 'gay' as it denotes openess. Homosexuality is the term he uses. I seriously doubt that marriage will cure him or anybody of homosexuality. I am not in touch with either guy anymore, not in several years (I moved back home).