@ highlands's post.
Anyways, ShamRockMan...
When you saw them with other guys dating, I don't know what your perspectives on dating, but dating to me is when you meet different people and get to know them before getting into a one by one relationship with that one special someone. No matter how hard you try, You need to know your needs and desires are and what you are really looking for in a girlfriend first, maybe those girls that you talked to wasn't the one for you. Don't sound too desperate either because you won't get women that way, let love come to you when the moment is right. Just have fun, go out meet different women, then you'll find that special someone, not on your terms, but by fate, if it is meant to be.
Good Luck to you!!