Oh you know............a wicked good resource is the Parent Deaf-hh listserv.
Archives of PARENTDEAF-HH@LISTSERV.KENT.EDU
There are some res school parents on the list, as well as other parents who could give you advice and ideas. You're getting good advice here, but you might get some ideas and things from parents who are very experianced with the res school experiance. I remember a few years ago, people discussing about options for parents who wanted to send their kids to a Deaf school, but didn't want them to be res students.
What state are you in? Maybe someone can direct you to a school with a decent Deaf program, so that your daughter can stay at home, but also get the benifits of teachers who are familiar with dhh kids. She might change her mind about staying at school when she's older. I would definitly do some brainstorming to come up with a good workable solution for your daughter.
I would also join the American Society for Deaf Children. It's an AWESOME organization.
American Society for Deaf Children