Quote:
Originally Posted by vallee
Well enjoying nice warm Georgia. A quick hello! I talked to my mom on her choices for my communications. It was interesting. First, mom said yes my hearing loss was at age 3 from rheumetic fever. She took me to a lot of doctors to find out what was wrong and all said a mild hearing loss. Mom keep taking me to doctors until at age 10, one decided to fit me with a hearing aid.
I asked her did they know it was progressive. She said that they did not have a clue what was going on with me and thought that it was just a little. I asked why she did not enroll me in deaf education and her comment - the resources were not available in the 70's. Also I did not qualify. I also asked about sign language. She said she did want me to take when I was in high school, she also found classes, but me being SO busy in high school would not take the time. I did get the lecture that she has been asking me for 20 years to take sign language, but it was my choice because I was out of the house. I told her I did take a course, but need to take more. Mom said I need to take the course with my daughter so she can communicate with me when I don't wear my cis. Then the most important part, mom said I tried to give you the best I could. All I can say is you did!
|
This seems unusual where the parents begged their child to take sign language over a period of 20 years and the child resisted. Makes me wonder how Mom and child bonded, etc...did you have good hearing, oral skills? Did Mom not think that was good enough? I am not getting at anything or trying to start something but I find this case unusual because it is usually the other way around.