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That's really not good of your parents. I am curious why in the world your parents do that? Do they think you're not capable of managing your money and your life as a deaf adult? You should tell your parents that they betrayed your trust in them. You should ask them why they did what they did.
I'd change banks or accounts without ever telling them what you did because what if they pretend to be you and do some messing around with your money?
I have a cousin whose mom ended up in the hospital for a month or so. She pretended to be her mom to the bank and got all of her money out to her own account. Of course, she told her mother later, but that is completely immoral to take your parents money without asking. She was an adult, and the situation is much deeper than I can share. We had a family member helping her financially. From a normal person's standpoint what her daughter did was not right whatsoever. You should never do anything without their permission or legal documents. We know that she never repaid her an ounce of money.
This is what probably one of your parents did by pretending to be you. I am not sure a bank would release information to someone else as long as they had your information. That doesn't make any sense. Would a bank release your information if they asked, "I'd like to know my deaf daughter's/son's account balance." I'd have this investigated if possible. I believe they record such phone conversations. If the bank violated your rights this way, then that is bad.
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