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I agree with Xentar about the difference between people's point of views and people themselves.
It´s insulting, belittling and offense when you say something direct to a person (you are stupid, no knowledge, pathetic, bully, hater, horrible, bad, liar, etc.)
It´s not insulting and offense when you say something against their point of views but debate with agree to disagree OR make your own post without quote anyone to rant/express your feeling. Its also not insulting and offense, when the people express their feeling against Germany, Roman Catholic, Anogistic, etc. etc. because they do not label me directly but express themselves what they feeling and think about anything. It´s good to know what they think of... I have no problem with that.
I still cannot understand why some good and interesting debate threads are being lock, that´s because the people feeling being bashed or insult by their POV. Sometimes they make sense of humor in debate threads, it could make me laugh... but the people see different and feeling being bashed and offense... If the people can´t handle how to debate but keep on offense, angry, annoy etc then this debate is not right for them.
Look at me, I debated at many CI threads in the past. I decided to quit myself because I know myself that it doesn´t work to debate with them but keep repeat, repeat, repeat that´s why I know the CI debate is not right for me and leave CI threads alone and visit any threads, I choose and feel comfortable and enjoy to debate with.
I beleive the debate to exchange/collect experiences are good education for us.
I talked one of Moderators via PM about my view and feeling etc. I´m very surprise that he/she do not reply my PM. I say no more further.
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