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Liebling:-))) · 02-04-2007, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Reba

No. Are you?

I don´t understand your question because I didn´t criticized doctors´s expert and knowledge in first place but you. Why should I criticize experts when I know that I´m not doctor?

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Yes, I know all that. I've known it for years. So? It's the parents who said that they were relieved that the child was not a homosexual. That shows their bias, not mine.

I didn´t see anything that the parents relieved. All what I see is they focus to find out about their child either he is really homosexual.. and check with experts until they found out that it´s transexual. Like what I say in previous posts that many people confused transexual with homosexual.

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I was just wondering why they waited for so long. If they knew something was "different" when the child was age 4, why did they wait until he was age 8 to take him to the doctors?

Curious things during toddler time is normal. Many toddlers grow out of their curiously and accept what they are when they turn into young children. I don´t see that they wait for 4 years until he is 8 years old but accept what he is and then realize that Tim is panic for not want to have breaking voice and beard, etc when he grow older... I guess he look at his Daddy or school boys and don´t want to be like them... It´s time for the parents to help Tim... check with doctors, search at internet, etc... to focus how to help their child.

I find it good they prevent Kim from grow to unhappy & depression man and will hate his body during puberty time...

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Of course. Who's in charge, the parents or the kids? Who buys the clothing? They need to wear clothing appropriate to the setting (follow the school rules), appropriate to the activity (don't wear expensive, nice clothes for yard work), and appropriate to the weather (no flip flops in the snow). Sometimes kids don't have the judgment to do that. Other than that, she had free choice for colors and combinations.

Oh I see...

I fulfill my boys´s wish for their clothes taste. I explained them if they want fashioned designer then they have to wait for special offer... I have no problem with my boys for their respect and understand about prices etc. My boys knows school rules and wear what they like...
I made sure that boys must wear waterproof jacket and trouser if they want to stay outside where the snows are around all the day. I don´t pick clothes for my boys but let them pick what they really like... they knows that it should not be expensive.

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Of course I know there are male ballet dancers. Our tax man is also a professional dancer. (He owns a prestigious tax firm downtown, and dances internationally; he's also married to a former dancer, and they are parents of cute twins.) So?

That´s good, you know that but why you asked me why the parents allow Tim be ballet in first place then? I only answer your question because I thought you don´t know there´re male ballet dancer...

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How do we really know that the parents just accepted what the child was, or actually encouraged and influenced his direction?

I see 100% clear that it´s Tim who really want to be girl, not parents. The medias and TV are everywhere here in Germany, now here in America. Of course Kim answered people´s questions to the public in TV. Why should the parents tried to make Tim girl when they have a daughter already?

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Well, according to the article, the parents were relieved that their son wasn't gay. So in your eyes, they would be "wrong".

But that's a moot point since the child wasn't homosexual.

Huh? I do not see that the parents relieved that their son is not gay. All what I see that the parents want to know either he is homosexual or what - wrong body? The parents questioned the doctors and focus interent.... They learn a lot about the difference between homosexual and transexual because a lot of people confused between homosexual and transexual... It´s the same thing the parents focus what deaf is.... which good for them... CI or HA until they know 100% exact.