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Originally Posted by Liebling:-)))
...A toddler/small child boy play with dolls and wear womanīs clothes is normal for toddler/small childīs age but soon he hit puberty (11 to 12 years old) still wear woman clothes and use womanīs things is not okay.
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OK, now I understand.
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Itīs same with girl, who play with cars is normal for toddler/small childīs age but soon before she hit puberty still desire to be boy and use boyīs things is not okay.
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But girls can play with the same toys that boys do, and that doesn't mean that they want to become boys. I think we call some toys "boys'" toys but really they are toys for boys and girls. (We shouldn't be so sexist, eh?)
I used to play with cars, toy guns and swords, skateboard, and GI Joe. I climbed trees and built forts. I definitely didn't want to
become a boy! I just thought those toys and activities were interesting. I also played with my Barbies (who dated the GI Joes; Ken was too boring
). My brother and I used to play cowboys and Indians, and pirates with each other. But I didn't want to
become a boy. My parents always bought me boy-style bikes so that I could hand-me-down to my younger brother. I preferred to read mystery and science fiction books (no "romance" books) because they had interesting plots. So?
When I was a kid, boys didn't wear girl's clothing, and girls didn't wear boy's clothing. It wasn't allowed, especially at school.
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It says in German websites (I will search for English link to provide here) that parents noticed that Tim wear girl clothes and play dolls, etc. and thought itīs normal for toddler age...
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I'm curious. Where did Tim get dolls and girl clothes when he was little? Did he have older sisters? If so, was he just borrowing from his sisters, and copying his sisters?
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... until they begin notice his behavior development... something not okay...
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I'm wondering how long it took his parents to notice? A week? A year?
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...until Tim admit their parents that he do not feel that he is a boy.
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How old was he then?
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Thatīs how the parents focus Timīs feeling and check with doctors, etc. until thereīre 100% correct.... and decide to fulfill Timīs wish into Kim.
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Did the doctors discover female chromosomes or hormones in Tim?