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UpstNYDesigner · 01-23-2007, 11:29 AM

What I am trying to say in here that the inside counts. It is not important if the person is deaf or hoh or hearing. My motto is true. Maybe you misunderstood what common means. More like, common grounds. Get it? For example.. not just interests, but in agreeing with things. Like the other C called compromise. 100 and 100. Both. Two becomes one. Does that clear up?

Shel, I agree with you. THAT is the reason why I am not in the dating field anymore. I am tired of the crap out there. Many immature, many want what they want rather than the need.... Oh I can go on forever with this subject. I also hated the fact ever since 1995, I met too many OLDER women that I was not expecting to have for relationship and marriage. I wanted someone my age or younger than my age.. Not a baby. Nooo.. Not to become my wife's daddy or sugar daddy. No.. The reason is I like to have children! I am first born of first born of first born.. on and on.. True! I carry that flag. I might end up not passing the torch.. My brother will since he has 2 sons.

I got really pissed in last 12 years that I end up meeting women who are not interested in having another baby or they are looking for a different reason than I am. Now, that is what Common means! Common goals is another example.

I also met women who CANT have babies.. Please.. not the A word.. No, not the abortion. I am referring to adoption. Not the same. I feel like I already know what that feeling that those mothers felt when having their babies. That feeling! OK? Now you know the real side of me.

I did not want to go to bars since they are bunch of kids now and they are after one thing that I am not going there. Besides with my faith, its a no no. Secondly, I ended up going to singles dances that usually older and mature people. Unfortunately, much older than I am! Been at it since 1993 and such no opportunity. The older ones in 40s, 50s, even 60s were after me! Yikes! I tried to go after the 20s and early 30s.. but did they want me? Noooo.. Perhaps they wanted sugar daddies!! (swearing in Italian about those jerks).

I know in my heart I will have my wife with 3 kids!

Well, I am 42 and now I should be doing other things than raising kids.. I rather to do that than looking for the right one. I explained quite a bit in my book I just wrote.. not yet published but you will understand a much better picture about everything here what I said.

Maybe my right woman is my talent in art and design. Like Sam Malone in Cheers, he went after the ladies but couldnt commit with them because he found the right one--the bar itself!

01-23-2007, 11:29 AM	#73 (permalink)
UpstNYDesigner Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 255	What I am trying to say in here that the inside counts. It is not important if the person is deaf or hoh or hearing. My motto is true. Maybe you misunderstood what common means. More like, common grounds. Get it? For example.. not just interests, but in agreeing with things. Like the other C called compromise. 100 and 100. Both. Two becomes one. Does that clear up? Shel, I agree with you. THAT is the reason why I am not in the dating field anymore. I am tired of the crap out there. Many immature, many want what they want rather than the need.... Oh I can go on forever with this subject. I also hated the fact ever since 1995, I met too many OLDER women that I was not expecting to have for relationship and marriage. I wanted someone my age or younger than my age.. Not a baby. Nooo.. Not to become my wife's daddy or sugar daddy. No.. The reason is I like to have children! I am first born of first born of first born.. on and on.. True! I carry that flag. I might end up not passing the torch.. My brother will since he has 2 sons. I got really pissed in last 12 years that I end up meeting women who are not interested in having another baby or they are looking for a different reason than I am. Now, that is what Common means! Common goals is another example. I also met women who CANT have babies.. Please.. not the A word.. No, not the abortion. I am referring to adoption. Not the same. I feel like I already know what that feeling that those mothers felt when having their babies. That feeling! OK? Now you know the real side of me. I did not want to go to bars since they are bunch of kids now and they are after one thing that I am not going there. Besides with my faith, its a no no. Secondly, I ended up going to singles dances that usually older and mature people. Unfortunately, much older than I am! Been at it since 1993 and such no opportunity. The older ones in 40s, 50s, even 60s were after me! Yikes! I tried to go after the 20s and early 30s.. but did they want me? Noooo.. Perhaps they wanted sugar daddies!! (swearing in Italian about those jerks). I know in my heart I will have my wife with 3 kids! Well, I am 42 and now I should be doing other things than raising kids.. I rather to do that than looking for the right one. I explained quite a bit in my book I just wrote.. not yet published but you will understand a much better picture about everything here what I said. Maybe my right woman is my talent in art and design. Like Sam Malone in Cheers, he went after the ladies but couldnt commit with them because he found the right one--the bar itself!