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Old 10-03-2006, 11:45 AM   #102 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Gemtun View Post
Lieb,

I taught sex education to youth for three years. You would not believe how nearly every kid 's parents didnt bother to educate them about sex. Most of these kids clung to me and asked me thousands of questions about sex.
Yes, the sex education at school is the mainly reason, I´m for because many children didn´t being teach about sex at home. It´s sad! Some parents feel uncomfortable to talk open about sex issues with their children or doesn´t bother to educate their children. Very sad... Some parents consider their teenagers as their children...

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Most of these girls were emotionally immature but craving for love because family didnt provide love in their homes.
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From these experiences, I know that it is impossible to have every youth be educated and make wise decisions. Emotional IQ is very important when it comes to sexuality.
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I was educated when I was 15 years old but I fell for his smooth sayings that if I didnt have sex with him, it means I didnt love him and that he would break up with me. Sure I had sex with him to prove it. That is what I am more concerned. We all could be educated in terms of using condoms, etc but only experience can help us understand smooth sayings and be able to trust our instincts/judgements.
I understand what you mean but it´s not just teenagers but also adults as well.
There´re many people including teenagers and adults between 15 and 60 years old fall for their partner´s smooth talk... after found out that they are married, have partners, swindle, use for sex, etc.... I often read the magazines about them... They lost a lot of money to swindler because they thought they love each other... etc. etc. They played as widow and cheat rich or divorced women for money... also women cheat men for money as well... It´s many things how they can deal with their smooth talker...


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So that is why I prefer to have laws be in place to protect the innocents. Education may help but laws are here for the consquences.
I respect you what you think right but I see different. This law is for teenagers, not adult which is not right. Look at many poor innoncent adults as well. They are also being cheat by their partners. I feel that teenagers and adults should being treat equal, not just that teenagers.
Teenagers are not only one who are naive, also adults as well.

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