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Originally Posted by Taylor
Liebling,
You bring up some excellent points but if I could disagree with one thing. One problem with teens today (as you and others have pointed out) is being naive. A young girl *thinks* she is in love and feels that she is in love. If a boy says 'I love you' to her, she takes it with all sincerity and will have sex with him. Unfortunately, to counter this is learned through life experience and isn't necessarily something that parents (or teachers) can. If a girl is 14 and a boy says "I Love You" it means the world to her. Take that same girl but she is 30, "I Love You" takes on a totally different meaning.
And unfortunately, the adults that go after young girls prey upon this. The whole "I will take care of you", "I have strong feelings for you", "I would never hurt you", "You mean the world to me". This is powerful stuff when an adult says it to a young girl, and adults use that as an advantage.
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Yeah Taylor, I watched somebody say that to a girl about 3 weeks ago and I told her that he was not being sincere at all after I walked up to him and told him to f*ck off and he left. He was a freelance carpnter with his own work truck. I know the girl's older sister and we grew up together.
I let her older sister know what was going on and she told her dad and her father is not too happy with that guy. I saw him say that to her at the pizza place where I was waiting on a small pizza for myself to pick up and take home to eat.
The girl is 14 and her older sister is 27 years old. The guy is 32 years old. I am 30 years old and I know much better than that.
The 14 yr. old girl still thinks he loves her
I would not be surprised if her father kills him if he keeps on trying to see his 14 yr. old daughter.