09-29-2006, 03:23 AM
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Sussi *7.7.86 - 18.6.09*
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Location: Germany
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Originally Posted by deafdyke
Yeah, but there's GOTTA be a benchmark where you say "this is abuse"
I disagree with the grey area cases.........but it does seem like a lot of the age gap cases, are about 20 something men who are sexually abusing teens.....I mean GOD, most teens are still learning about relationships and things like that. I remember when I was a teen I thought I knew EVERYTHING, and I look back, and shake my head at how naive and sheltered I was then! I know I read somewhere that a majority of teen pregancies are fathered by older men, who apparently want to take advantage of girls.....which is VERY SICK. Yes, I know age is just a number, but it does seem like a lot of those 20something guys are in a relationship b/c they can pressure a teen girl to have sex easier.
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Remember that every teenagers are different. I know what sex is when I was teenager and said NO to sex. I beleive sex is for love, not open my legs for everyone.
Yes, you are right that some teenagers could be naive but not... Let them learn their own experience what right or wrong... Lucky is they have their parentīs support to learn what right or wrong... Most teenagers donīt like to have control parents then they will go wrong path... Support is better then children will go right path.
We talked about few years part.
Like what I say before...
18 years old have sex with 16 years old is an illegal
40 years old have sex with 18 years old is a legal...
What is that? 
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Boult, no, it's not about being MORE Victorian. It's simply acknowleding that most
teens aren't emoitonally ready for a relationship with an older guy.
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Unfortunlately, Boult is right.
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