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Originally Posted by Gemtun
I understand what you are saying, Lieb.
It is not that I dont trust my daughters. It is that I DONT trust young men with my girls! I prefer that there is a law out there to protect the innocents. Yes, parents are responsibile for educating their children but tell me, do you really think 100 percent of all parents even bother to educate their children? Sadly, many dont so how do I know if my girl is dating a 19 year old man who was NOT educated by his folks? Thus, I prefer that there is a law in the place so that these people will be put in place legally if violate the law if their parents dont even care to begin with. Where is the consquences if parents dont even care?
I just pray that my daughters will not meet up with a 19 year old in their early teens and make harsh decisions because it is hard to predict the outcome. They could be swayed into sex as you know many males tend to use smooth lines on females. Most females think if a man wants sex, it means a sign of love which is the opposite for most men. Fifteen year old girls are not emotionally mature and experienced to recognize if a man is into sex solely for sex or if he is truly in love with her.I would expect that most 19 year old men would know better and avoid these emotionally immature girls but you know lust is lust so it is difficult.
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Yes I can understand where you come from and agree that some parents neglect to educate their children, thatīs how they expose their children into wrong path. See my respond on Jolie77īs post.
We parents protect our different sex children... Educate girls to say NO to sex... etc... Honestly, I know itīs not very easy for you, me and parents when our children become puberty........... My oldest son already have puberty... Not very easy... I once caught him experiement with condom... Do I yell on him? No, I tried to calm down... and told my hubby about this... Guess what... My hubby said that itīs normal because he did experiment condom out of curious when he was Dannyīs age. I was like Oooohhhh....
My hubby & Danny made conversation as men... Danny understood... We make sure that he wonīt notice that weīre over-protective parents... I tried to communicate with him in general way & open mind, something like that "Oh terrible, what I saw from TV that a guy got AID... teenage preggies, poor, Itīs scary... etc... time to time, (not on that day I caught him with condom but on other day). It lead us good conversation... then Danny said to me: Mom, I know what I saw is terrible... I wonīt do that... etc..." If I have a daughter then I would do the same to her...
You said that 15 years old girls are not emotionally mature - You could be right but not all... I did said NO to sex when I was 15 years old. I know sex is wrong because I learned from school... Thanks God, that I learned from school because my parents never taught me about sex responsible... I would go wrong path if thereīre no sex education at school... I thank school for their open mind...
Remember, the children need their parentīs support, not control.