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Originally Posted by Jolie_77
I can understand the point of a 16 years old girl dating a 18, 19 years old boy since their age gap is so close not to mention, it is much different than having a 10 year gap. Some parents are okay with their teenager dating a 18,19 years old male as long as the parents are aware and putting the trust in the boy but most of the time you see, that doesn't work out.
Really, If that 18,19 years old boy wanted to be with the 16 years old girl and loves her so much, He would have sacrificed the time and WAIT for her until she turns 18 - To me, That is LOVE and compassion. There's not many 18,19 years old boys that would do it just to wait for the girl to turn 18 but it rarely happens. When that happens, they're very lucky.
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Unfortunlately yes, I has to give you right that there´re very rarely who can wait patiently until their girlfriend turn to 18 years old or wait until after married.
To me, the ages is only number. No matter either 16 or 18 years old, they still can say NO to sex... Its about respect, the guys have to learn to accept "No". They will know for the sure that their boyfriends or girlfriends are not right for them if they can´t accept "No" from them.
Educate children to show their respect is mainly important...
I can see that many teenagers explore & experiment sexually as part of normal development which total different as my time. That´s why I´m for that sex education at school because many parents feel uncomfortable to talk open with their children about sexually responsible.
I´m glad to know that open-mind parents who accept their 16 years old children´s 18 years old boyfriends...