Originally Posted by Pomeranian
I think Andrew is jealous and dont want to lose her by having her to gain weight so no other man can get her. Get it!! Andrew dont want to see her lose some weight so she could feel good about herself and looking good being in a good shape. He is afraid that the other man will fall in love with her and take her away from him. But the most important thing is love and trust each other that Andrew should know and learn that is important.
This reminds me of what happening in my family: My aunt tried to lose weight and putting on the new make-over. She's feeling good and can't wait to see what her husband was thinking. My uncle came home from work and what happened? They started an arguments about her new looks and her weights. She felt hurt so bad, she decided to dump him right there. He tried to beg her to take him back and apologized for the way he behaved toward her.
She decided to take him back. And then it started all over again, this time, he gets angry because men were made a dog-whistle at his wife and remarked how beautiful his wife is. He pissed off. So the final thing she did, she divorced him and kicked him out of their home for good. She's a devote housewife. I can't figure why the uncle I used to have just didn't get it. Her words now, "NO MORE MEN IN MY LIFE!"
I guess she got fed up. She has two grown sons. <sigh> She's a happy single woman again.
Happen to me too, so I just ignore him and please what I do. I never complain about his thingies, but he complains too much about me and my looks...argh! If I wear a short, he thinks my short is too short.
So the fair thing is, I said his short is too short and showing HIS butts!! Phhhfft!